Have you ever had girls ghost on you?
I've dealt with this. So have my girlfriends.
One big grand conclusion drawn out of this- he's not worth it/ she's not worth your time.
Same for a girl, guys. If she flakes on you, if she ditches you, if she acts all happy then disappears out of the blue, just drop her.
Now, 1 instance, okay, maybe he or she had a legit excuse....bust still, is it that hard to text/call?
But here's why I think so many women (and men) get stuck on 'disappearing' people.
Let's say you've messaged a few times, then your date ditches your first date together. I don't think those few messages are enough time to allow for a deeper connection. So if he or she comes around again, you're going to be like, nah, no thanks.
But if you've known this person for a while, have seen them, have gone out on a few dates, developed a deeper connection, and then he or she disappears on you, that's when a lot of women ('cause I've seen this time and again) get stuck on these guys and give them another chance.
So these guys appear, then disappear, then appear, then disappear. And women will make tons of excuses for these guys, like, oh, he was just busy, oh, he had family issues, oh, this and that. Once a woman really likes a guy, she will make a shit load of excuses for him.
Until one day, she either gets fed up with his behavior and drops him or finds an amazing guy that treats her a thousand times better.
I've seen this with guys too, but it usually affects those guys that haven't had much experience, the 'virgins', the fragile guys, etc.
Moral of the story.
Just move on. No matter how busy or whatever issues a person may have, it takes less than 5 minutes to text/call. So their excuses are most likely BS.
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