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Author:  Gfys [ Sat Jul 16, 2016 6:08 pm ]
Post subject:  Getting her interested on her vacation
So I recently started talking to this girl on tinder, I suggested that we would meet up for a drink which she could not agree to since she's going on a holiday in a few days and she has alot to do. So she declined politley. Messaging back and forth has been going good so far. Better than I expected since Im terrible at talking to girls. But since she seems interested, how can I make sure she remains socially friendly so she'll consider going out with me when she returns. I don't want her to forget me and I don't want to bomb her with unnecessary texting. How should I handle this? Tips on building rapport etc etc..
Author:  Mr. Assertive [ Sat Jul 16, 2016 6:21 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Getting her interested on her vacation
just send a text every now and then. No biggie. You should be racking up the numbers so you don't feel this way. More girls = you never ask this question again.
Author:  Gfys [ Sun Jul 17, 2016 1:36 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Getting her interested on her vacation
That would be great. But I'll go on with a conversation and it's goes well then I do something that kills it, haven't really figured out what yet. So getting numbers and girls isn't my reality yet.
She had troubles packing and she hasn't replied to my last text this morning so I figured I should check in on her to see how it's going. But I'm pretty sure that would be a bad move. Nobody wants to hear that from a stranger..
Author:  Mr. Assertive [ Mon Jul 18, 2016 11:38 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Getting her interested on her vacation
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That would be great. But I'll go on with a conversation and it's goes well then I do something that kills it, haven't really figured out what yet. So getting numbers and girls isn't my reality yet.
She had troubles packing and she hasn't replied to my last text this morning so I figured I should check in on her to see how it's going. But I'm pretty sure that would be a bad move. Nobody wants to hear that from a stranger..

The point is to not be having endless conversations with a girl. The more you talk to her the less she will inclined to meet you out. Its better for you to end conversations and enjoy things other than women. Once you find that thing and you place it above women, you are displaying nonneedy behaviors and its attractive to a woman.


You shouldn't be checking in on her, for what ? She is on vacation. Let her be on vacation. You should be putting in the work and getting some numbers. I actually spent two weeks off from women, because one, I got sick, 2, I was actually getting a little tired of all the social interactions lately (not because they were bad) but because I wanted to focus more on reading some books, including PUA related books.

I was on a dry spell for two weeks, but I enjoyed it. I watched shows, I played guitar, I went to the gym, I slept, I read PUA related materials, I cleaned my house, I focused on making my work life better....my phone was dry as fuck.

Next thing you know, I decided it was time to get laid and the first night I didn't get any tail but the second night I did. Boom. I'm telling man, you need to detach yourself from the outcome. You are banking too much on this one chick when you should be planting as many little seeds as you can. A gardener doesn't just grow one plant.
Author:  Jimmy Parker [ Mon Aug 08, 2016 8:32 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Getting her interested on her vacation
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You are banking too much on this one chick when you should be planting as many little seeds as you can. A gardener doesn't just grow one plant.
That's good stuff :)
When you have too many options, more than you can chew, usually at least one works really well and if it goes wrong, you always have second choice and third....
It's always good to pick up as many girls as possible and not wait too long to make advancements because they also have too many options and they wait for you to lead. Nowadays I can't expect girls to lead instead of me.
Author:  Warped Mindless [ Tue Aug 09, 2016 12:41 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Getting her interested on her vacation
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