I fully agree with Muse.
I never would really talk to my buddies about my pickup skills.
I never would really bring it up... if we were all out, I'd just do my thing.
Always real humble about it.
It prevents them from having high expectations, and creating competition.
I don't have to try and prove myself to people.
Another thing I always remember, from a David D. cd set.
One of the guys he had on there was talking about this.
So many guys get to the point where they'll see a woman,
and think, "I HAVE to approach... I HAVE to say something funny."
The point is..... you don't.
Sometimes, you're just not going to be feeling it.
Everybody has off-nights, or off periods... you can't force it.
You just wanted to have a good time, and your buddies pressured you.
And, although you're very skilled, in your subconscious, it was there.
"Ughhh, this is such a pain. I just want to do my thing."
And it showed.
I was getting all excited, my friend.
I thought you were going to be gone, cause of work,
but then you put up a few posts/replies.
And then this one hit.
Good luck, man.