I got a model's number( a big deal for me) after talking to her online (and verified she is real), waited a day to text, and then we bantered. At the end of the banter, I ask her out to dinner. She says "absolutely, my schedule is flexible." So I say, how about Thursday night at 7 (the day is currently Tuesday). She doesn't respond that night.
So the next day I text her in the afternoon "check yes or no. lol and then we can pick where to meet at". She says, hey sorry...just trying to see my schedule. how far are we from each other". I tell her google maps says about 40 minutes. She doesn't respond.
Later that week, we bantered and I asked her out, she doesn’t respond. This happened again the next week, after I waited a few more days.
I then wait 5 days, banter with her, and intentionally don’t ask her out.
2 days later, she asks "hey! so if you are still interested in meeting...can we? Also can we swap pics again?" She sends me a selfie, and I send her the most recent pic I have of me out with another girl. She asks if I'm single, and I tell her the girl in the picture is just a friend. She says "Ok
". then I say alright lets say this Thursday at 7. I know a good place for us to grab food. No response.I wait several days till Friday and say “Hey we should meet up this weekend what’s your schedule like?” She says “Hey… yes I would love to”. I say great let’s get coffee tomorrow afternoon. She says “I might have to work in the afternoon.” So I say to her “I have plans Saturday night, but Sunday afternoon at 2 would work.” no response.
Next day on Saturday- I send to her “So are we on for tomorrow?”. “Hey. Yea…this sounds lame… but i don’t do coffee. No offense. But thank you.” “I say, lol that is pretty lame. Since I like ya I suppose we could do lunch.” She says, “Well I apologize but lunch is pretty lame too.” “Hmm.. lets go ice skating then.” She says “I don’t know how *scared emoji* ”. I say “alright let’s do dinner at xyz location at 7. No response.
A few days later I send her “There’s a hilarious comedian coming out way this Thursday. Come be my date.” She says “Where and what time”. I say “7pm at xyz location. The guy was runner up in nbc’s last comic standing and I saw him 5 years ago.”
No response.
Andddd I’m done texting her I give up. Did I do something wrong? What would you have done differently?
Also, what does “I don’t do coffee or lunch mean?” She thinks she’s so hot that she has to be taken to dinner? Have you guys ever encountered this before?
EDIT: I see there's a whole thread on why coffee dates suck. I've had success on coffee dates and usually just try to go somewhere else the minute I tell that we like each other. I've never heard of women rejecting you because you asked them on a coffee date.