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Author:  J.Daniels [ Wed Jan 20, 2016 8:56 pm ]
Post subject:  What are your sticking points?
I know there's a lot of ego around this, but every guy has certain things that just don't seem to want to fuck off. What are yours? I don't care if it's "I can only ever fuck 3 girls in a night, never 4!" lol. I'll list a few personal sticking points:

1. Jealousy. If I get too close to a girl, I fucking hate the thought of any other guy ever fucking her - even guys in her past.

2. Monogamy. I really struggle to stay faithful. I do it most of the time but it's fucking hard. I put this down to some kind of scarcity mentality with an abundance reality.

your turn, boys...
Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Wed Jan 20, 2016 9:24 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: What are your sticking points?
Monogamy. It used to mean something to me years ago. Now it's like "Eh whats the worst that could happen?"
Author:  detox75 [ Thu Jan 21, 2016 6:55 am ]
Post subject:  Re: What are your sticking points?
ego
Author:  RockstarPUA [ Thu Jan 21, 2016 10:01 am ]
Post subject:  Re: What are your sticking points?
1. Jealousy, just like OP
2. Feeling that the grass is always greener
3. Once I hook a girl, I struggle to play it cool and become a bit needy. I really have to stop myself from sending too many texts or complimenting them too much
Author:  ChocolatePUA [ Fri Jan 22, 2016 3:14 pm ]
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1. Grass is greener syndrome. When I'm seeing multiple women I want to settle down because seeing multiple women can be tiring and comes with it's own set of challenges. When I'm seeing one woman, I suddenly get bored and have the urge to chase even below-par tail.

2. Laziness in approaching - sometimes approach "anxiety" really does get the best of me.
Author:  Clocks [ Sun Jan 24, 2016 10:29 pm ]
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Interesting answers from people so far...

I don't get jealous at all of girls these days. To the point where I don't care at all, as long as I don't hear too much about it

Do you guys not feel bad cheating? Seeing different girls is one thing but if you've agreed to just see each other it's seems too deliberate an action to be considered an accident and seems like a low integrity move. But whatever, who am I to judge?

My weaknesses...

1. Not going out enough. Canceling plans with people, not socialising enough and being too much of a hermit. Girls won't be met in my bedroom on my PC

2. Settling for less than great looking girls

3. Grass is always greener (same with my career)
Author:  J.Daniels [ Sun Jan 24, 2016 11:28 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: What are your sticking points?
Yes I feel bad cheating. I like to think that my selling point is REAL high when I'm sober these days. No guy can justify cheating to me unless they're both fully aware that it's an open relationship.
Author:  R.C [ Wed Feb 03, 2016 2:31 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: What are your sticking points?
My curse and blessing is my hunter instinct. I enjoy the thrill a little too much, which serves me well in getting the girl, then fucks me over as when the thrill is gone, so is half of my desire to now keep her.
Obviously that creates conflict with the idea of monogamy. Which I consider retarded, for the record, if we're talking extended periods of time.

I don't know. I'm not particularly faithful. As one of my girls once said "I don't care if you're fucking other girls R.C. As long as I never find out and feel as loved as I do with you, I really don't care". And she honestly is one of the coolest girls I've ever met.

That being said I don't consider monogamy a sticking point. To me it's just something we humans try to force over our nature that clearly goes against it.
What's more relevant to me is that you don't purposely hurt people out of sheer maliciousness. Or out of anything, if you have no valid reason to do so.
Author:  J.Daniels [ Wed Feb 03, 2016 3:19 pm ]
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I'm actually gonna create a topic on monogamy JD. I'd throw a justification attempt at you but I'll do it there.
I look forward to it :P I'm a real hypocrite with monogamy.
Author:  R.C [ Wed Feb 03, 2016 3:33 pm ]
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I'm actually gonna create a topic on monogamy JD. I'd throw a justification attempt at you but I'll do it there.
I look forward to it :P I'm a real hypocrite with monogamy.
I started writting but then I figured I also had to talk about love and marriage, and don't have the time now. I edited my previous response though.
Author:  J.Daniels [ Wed Feb 03, 2016 4:26 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: What are your sticking points?
You make a valid point. Maybe it's the guilt of being unfaithful that gets to me... still kind of finding where I stand with that situation. Part of me considers cheating a sign of a scarcity mindset, and the other part considers it natural. I just know how much I'd hate the tables to turn.
Author:  R.C [ Wed Feb 03, 2016 5:20 pm ]
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You make a valid point. Maybe it's the guilt of being unfaithful that gets to me... still kind of finding where I stand with that situation. Part of me considers cheating a sign of a scarcity mindset, and the other part considers it natural. I just know how much I'd hate the tables to turn.
That's the thing. You have to accept and be ok with that possibility.
Author:  GenesisPUA [ Thu Feb 04, 2016 4:41 pm ]
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Sticking point:

I get in my head so much whiles approaching and talking to an HB, though the interaction goes well sometimes, I notice I forget a lot of vital informations about HB. Eg.. Her name.
Author:  J.Daniels [ Thu Feb 04, 2016 10:20 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: What are your sticking points?
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Sticking point:

I get in my head so much whiles approaching and talking to an HB, though the interaction goes well sometimes, I notice I forget a lot of vital informations about HB. Eg.. Her name.

I'm exclusive with a girl SPAM, but interview mode was always a sticking point for me. Rather than relating to her on a question I'd previously asked and starting a cool conversation, I'd find myself filling the conversation with pointless padding kind of questions to avoid a silence.
Author:  ashleygorecki282 [ Sat Feb 06, 2016 2:26 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: What are your sticking points?
I want to calm down because seeing several females can be exhausting and comes with it's own set of difficulties. When I'm seeing one woman
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