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Author:  slyder2412 [ Tue Mar 25, 2008 5:04 am ]
Post subject:  How do you react when the HB doesn't txt/call back
Hey guys the title basically says it all...

How do you behave towards a girl who doesn't return a text/call? Say you call/text some random night to see what she's up to tonight or what i said tonight "hey sweets, a bunch of us are drinking tonight" ...i didn't literally INVITE her, but the intention was there and i didn't get a response. Any advice? thanks.
Author:  yokezg63 [ Tue Mar 25, 2008 5:10 am ]
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Whenever a person doesn't text me back, I just forget him/her and move on.

If there's some good reason, then she'll text back. Otherwise, she's just being disrespectful.
Author:  sydarm [ Tue Mar 25, 2008 5:33 am ]
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There could be a million reasons why she doesn't text or call back. It could be your fault or you could have had a great sarge and for some other reason thats not related to u she doesn't call back.
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Otherwise, she's just being disrespectful.
What does respect have to do with it? Maybe he creeped her out and she legitimately shouldn't call him back (we've probably all been there, I have). Perhaps she's too busy to deal with him, feels guilty, doesn't remember, maybe she's an asshole...who cares.

If I call and get no response, I leave a message. Keep it short. U can call a second time and either ask her to call you or simply not leave a message and have her call u if she's interested there. She has your information.
Author:  wakeboardr [ Tue Mar 25, 2008 3:40 pm ]
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Just move on, there are plenty of other girls
Author:  Papi Lindo [ Tue Mar 25, 2008 9:32 pm ]
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Keep her in rotation. Call her once a week. Be brief but energetic with your messages and never acknowledge the fact that she hasn't returned nor picked up your phone.

Relationships get started with familiarity -- and quite frankly so does attraction. Also, be sure to work in calls on the weekday so that if you do happen to call on Friday/Sat it isn't awkward! Your intentions of meeting up are veiled by your other calls. It becomes a normality for her to receive your calls.

Also, be unpredictable (occassionally) with your initial message. Just recently I met a girl on St. Patty's day. I asked her several times to come out with a bunch of us. On third attempt (week 2), she responded "I'm in Dallas, TX." I responded "Come anyway ;)"

That Sunday I texted: "You better be bringing me back a cowboy hat." (Random)

Her: "What!? Why Would I? 11!1!"

Response: "Cause I would look damn good in one."

This led to other conversation, and it helps establish rapport, even though we've only met once.

Good luck!
Author:  A-Train [ Wed Mar 26, 2008 1:31 am ]
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The trick to getting a girl to text you back is to create intrigue. Women love gossip, talking about themselves, and relating their experiences with other peoples experiences. Hence the emphasis put on DHV stories. So an example of a text that achieves this is..

"OMG the craziest thing happened to me today and it totally reminded me of you."

usually when I use this the girl will call me shortly after receiving the text. So be ready with a little story and then transition into, "I just thought of something fun we could do on tomorrow." She will be intrigued and you tell her its a surprise(have something unique in mind), just be ready to go at X time. Don't give her a choice in the matter. This generally prevents flaking.
Author:  Jay Wa [ Wed Mar 26, 2008 8:44 pm ]
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Keep her in rotation. Call her once a week. Be brief but energetic with your messages and never acknowledge the fact that she hasn't returned nor picked up your phone.

Relationships get started with familiarity -- and quite frankly so does attraction
This is the credited response.
Author:  Bedrock [ Thu Mar 27, 2008 12:36 am ]
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Just act like its no big deal... because its not. so they didnt text/call back, so what? its not like that means they hate you. so just be like "oh well fuck it" and move on. no big deal
Author:  Monkey [ Thu Mar 27, 2008 6:09 pm ]
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Why on the Gods' green earth would you _not_ actually invite her? What reason does she have for calling you back if you're not even trying to establish a second meet with her? You say the intention is _definitely_ there, but there's nothing definite about it. Unless you come out and say "You should come," you have not made your intentions at all clear. She just figures "Cool, you're going out drinking, good for you."

As for girls that don't call me back, I'll call them a maximum of three times. If I get no response, they're done. I don't want to be that guy that calls every week and she's ignoring. If you did your job and attracted her properly, she'd be canceling plans with Orlando Bloom to call you back. I assume I fucked up somewhere and move on.
Author:  Green Ranger [ Thu Mar 27, 2008 6:13 pm ]
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Invite her and say something like "you can tag along if you life" is a sloppy invitatin that makes her look like the extra! i do it all the time! and if she says no say "ok: and hang up! Fuck her theirs PLENTY of other women who would love 2 fuck you if you potray youself right! So i alway say theirs 250 fuck up you can make b4 you bcoem REALLY good at this game
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