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Author:  Jay Wa [ Sun Mar 23, 2008 1:52 am ]
Post subject:  Need Advice: Asking a Girl to Marry Me
So I read in the Mystery Method that you're not supposed to ask women questions. Pick-Up Artists are supposed to lead conversations and trigger emotional responses.

Well, I am asking this girl I have been dating for a while to marry me. I was wondering what y'all think the best way to do this would be.

I was thinking something like, "Marry me now!" or "I'm getting married. You should join me."

Any suggestions? I like this girl and I really don't want to get blown out of the set. . .
Author:  yokezg63 [ Sun Mar 23, 2008 3:49 am ]
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You're kidding, right? Would you rather she propose to you?

PUA methods are just guidelines. Don't take them too much to heart. At the end of the day, you're going to have to show her the real you. Read Neil Strauss's "The Game"; it shows you what happens when you base your entire persona around PUA, and don't ever learn to how to be a part of the real world again.

Just don't be an AFC and become her slave. No woman ever respects a man who does that. Learn to be your own man, instead of hanging off every word of some Pickup Artist.
Author:  rain3 [ Sun Mar 23, 2008 5:02 am ]
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its a joke guys chill... i like the "i dont wanna get blown out of a set!" that got good laugh out of me. are u really getting married tho?
Author:  Rye Lee [ Sun Mar 23, 2008 5:24 am ]
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Funny stuff Jay Wa.

I don't understand why people are so afraid of asking questions, people love to answer them, girls are people, they will answer them. You don't come into a set asking questions and having nothing to contribute, you don't ask questions for everything, but asking questions is a GOOD thing sometimes.

I spent damn near a whole day trying to beat this concept out of a student of mine and damned if as soon as he listened to me and asked the girl a few questions about herself, she didn't start making out with him inside 15 minutes of meeting! You share yourself with her by telling stories that she will relate to, then you ask questions and she relates to you, you form a bond that way and attraction is built. If you never ask any questions and you do all the talking, then no bond is formed and she will remain bored, or LJBF you, because you haven't related to her at all.

And dear god, if you ever do want to marry a girl, make sure you know the answer before hand and ask her, because that's just how it's done, don't let pickup skew your entire perception of the world.
Author:  Durus [ Sun Mar 23, 2008 8:36 am ]
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I agree with Rye. You have to ask questions. Where AFCs go wrong is that they ONLY ask question after question after question. That's just a boring conversation... but so is just droning on about shit she doesn't care about. I usually ask a few probing questions until I hit on something about her that I can talk about more deeply.

Follow Aristotle here where he said that virtue lies in the mean between extremes.
Author:  Chief [ Sun Mar 23, 2008 11:56 am ]
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Just in case you are being serious...

Don't marry her if you are worried about "getting blown out of set." That's not a good sign that you should commit.
Author:  Beaker [ Sun Mar 23, 2008 3:03 pm ]
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Just be yourself, or should I say "Your best self", and do whatever way you think she'll enjoy, Good Luck
Author:  Impact [ Sun Mar 23, 2008 3:46 pm ]
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I only opened this because it actually seemed to be something of value unlike nearly 90% of everything else in this forum is newbie junk! And i do genuinely want to help someone whose making such a long commitment i think its great, and i respect that!

Do something wonderful for the day, take her out to a beautiful place, make it seem like your the prince and shes your princess. Attempt to make it less special than it is, dress down the evning. Go to a fancy place and dress bad, and drop the ring in her wine glass while your at a dinner. When she sees it, be like what on earth? how did that thing get there?. let her look at it then look her in the eyes deeply, the left side of the eye being the key to a persons soul!.. let her brain figure it out a little.. and then shell say

OMG!

and you hit her ;)

Someone wants to marry you? i couldn't imagine who, look around a bit! then look at her again, take the ring put it on her finger, say: "i think it belongs here" tell her, babe, i love ya, <i always have will, you make me smile when I'm sad, so on.. (you figure this out.)> will you marry me!? say it loud, let everyone hear it!

Say it all with presence, and strength, as if your perfectly content with life without her, yet your giving her gift and the beauty of yourself forever.

thats something id consider.

You have to make her remember it for the rest of her life, its not the question, but the adventure you put her through, and the memory she can tell to others after.
Author:  Mister_GQ [ Sun Mar 23, 2008 7:49 pm ]
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if you are ready for marriage you should know her inside and out, and should not need to ask us how to go about asking. if she loves you, she will say yes no matter how u deliver the line.

re-examine your relationship if you need to ask us about marriage.
Author:  Beaker [ Sun Mar 23, 2008 8:39 pm ]
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I only opened this because it actually seemed to be something of value unlike nearly 90% of everything else in this forum is newbie junk! And i do genuinely want to help someone whose making such a long commitment i think its great, and i respect that!

Do something wonderful for the day, take her out to a beautiful place, make it seem like your the prince and shes your princess. Attempt to make it less special than it is, dress down the evning. Go to a fancy place and dress bad, and drop the ring in her wine glass while your at a dinner. When she sees it, be like what on earth? how did that thing get there?. let her look at it then look her in the eyes deeply, the left side of the eye being the key to a persons soul!.. let her brain figure it out a little.. and then shell say

OMG!

and you hit her Wink

Someone wants to marry you? i couldn't imagine who, look around a bit! then look at her again, take the ring put it on her finger, say: "i think it belongs here" tell her, babe, i love ya, will you marry me!? say it loud, let everyone hear it!

Say it all with presence, and strength, as if your perfectly content with life without her, yet your giving her gift and the beauty of yourself forever.

thats something id consider.

You have to make her remember it for the rest of her life, its not the question, but the adventure you put her through, and the memory she can tell to others after.
Great post Impact
Author:  Papi Lindo [ Sun Mar 23, 2008 9:29 pm ]
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:lol: Jay Wa, what a great post. This is hilarious.
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Any suggestions? I like this girl and I really don't want to get blown out of the set. . .
Don't forget to bring her parents, obviously you have to disarm the obstacles. Also, toss in a neg here and there until you get some IOIs and then break into isolation. If you work it right you should end up F-Closing the shit out of the target. If you can make the "marry me" feel natural, she will be putty in your hands. It's the ultimate statement of interest! Rings are like drinks..DON'T BUY HER ONE! Play the five question game and make a bet.

OMG, I figured out how to have her ask you "to marry me." If you win, she asks you (and pays for the ring) and if she wins you ask her. This is such a cash routine you defintely cannot go wrong. From here just run the usual stuff. Make it clear about MLTRs...yadda yadda yadda. I don't think you anything to worry about.
Author:  minijag [ Mon Mar 24, 2008 5:08 am ]
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Ya, I personally like, "Hey guess what? I'm getting married today!! You should join me" sounds halarious. especially if you already do CNF type stuff
Author:  Jay Wa [ Tue Mar 25, 2008 1:35 pm ]
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The winning responses to this thread are as follows:

1. Papi Lindo
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Don't forget to bring her parents, obviously you have to disarm the obstacles. Also, toss in a neg here and there until you get some IOIs and then break into isolation. If you work it right you should end up F-Closing the shit out of the target. If you can make the "marry me" feel natural, she will be putty in your hands. It's the ultimate statement of interest! Rings are like drinks..DON'T BUY HER ONE! Play the five question game and make a bet.

OMG, I figured out how to have her ask you "to marry me." If you win, she asks you (and pays for the ring) and if she wins you ask her. This is such a cash routine you defintely cannot go wrong. From here just run the usual stuff. Make it clear about MLTRs...yadda yadda yadda. I don't think you anything to worry about.
2. Hobbit
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I really hope this is satirical. Why not do something special for her, like a romantic dinner, and put in a fortune cookie "Marry me now or your dog gets it". It's a statement, with a false takeaway. The takeaway being the dogs life.
3. Rain3131
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its a joke guys chill... i like the "i dont wanna get blown out of a set!" that got good laugh out of me. are u really getting married tho?
For acknowledging that it is a joke.

But the best advice is by Impact. Good work buddy, If I was actually getting married, I would seriously consider your advice.
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