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| Author: | Lanky [ Sat Mar 15, 2008 12:38 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Judgement Week - 17th March |
I've wrote a bit of a Intro about me since it's my first post, if you want to go straight to where the title is referring then go down to the bold title "in the Field." Intro: Alright fella’s this is a little bit amount me and then I’ve wrote about what situations I will be in next week. OK so I’m in my early 20s and from the North of England. For a period of time I had a fair few girlfriends (not at the same time just one after the other) who I went all the way with, but after the last one I don’t know what happened but it just stopped, its’ now been 5 years since my last girlfriend. Now out of all my friends I’m probably the loudest and I’m defiantly the funniest, they used to constantly say to me they don’t know how I don’t have a girlfriend at the moment because I’m good looking and I’m funny and out going with them, However ironically when I’m in a new situation with people I don’t know I turn it to one of the quietest people. Now as for my “wingmen” if I can call them that. The majority of them think there are the best Players when in fact they are nowhere near. The never make the approach anywhere other then clubs, and even them they have to be very drunk and only then they go up to the drunk girls (HB 2-5) and settle with them, I say fuck that. I don’t want to have to get drunk and get some average (and below) girls, I want to aim higher. Now my problem is I have pretty much a lot of AA. I see these sets in the clubs and I just freeze up, I think in my mind fuck it don’t break the three second rule just go up with an opener and build from there. But all I do is stand on the edge of the bar just looking as if I’m expecting something magical too happen and I then blow my chances, and wake up the next day and just think fuck even if I failed I should have at least tried. It's also hard those because I'm slightly short sighted so i don't have to wear my glasses all the time but i hate wearing them full stop, especially in clubs so i can't see what girls to aim for. My speech is also something i need to work on because i have a deep voice and seem to talk rather fast. Then I discovered the whole concept of PUA and MPUA’s. I was fascinated how the majority of them went from these other AFCs and are now complete opposites of there former selves, its great reading field reports on how other people like yourself are improving. I’ve been reading up on the whole concept and how to do a successful sarge, it’s something I’m going to try for. Not just for pulling all these women in clubs but I think it will changed my life in general for the better the better I get at it. I just need to do the approach the first time as my first mile stone then even if I completely fail I’ll still be happy I did it. I tried explaining the concept to my mates/wingmen and showed them a few sites and all the feedback I got was its completely stupid and that every site is just trying to ravish money from people. I want to prove them wrong and some time in the further have all them look up to me like Wow how the fuck do you do it. In The Field: (I know nothing goes to plan, but this is just an outline in my head of what might happen) Now the reason for the title is I have two key opportunities to build some experience from: This Wednesday – Concert. OK so on Wednesday I’m going to a concert, and my first attempt and sarging with the knowledge I now have. This should be a easy place to open sets because I could just talk about the band, easy negs are available (neg them about getting the bands music). So this should go well, however I don’t know how to continue after a while. My plan could be to open with (my friends g/f kissed another girl is that cheating *opinions*) as long as I get over my AA, then after they have given their opinions I would quickly move onto wait so what are your names, what do you do, then neg them perhaps about what they do. But then what I’m stuck where to follow from their, I need to DHV and keeping the conversion going but I don’t know how to. This Saturday – Bachelor Party – I’m going to a Bachelor Party with a group of friends and nothing would make me more positive then successfully sarging in front of them, the problem is I will be the most nervous in front of them because if I fail I will be failing in front of all of them, I know I should have the don’t give a fuck attitude/live life but it will be hard in this situation. And comments/feedback/tips are apprechiated. |
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| Author: | Mr. Fantastic [ Sat Mar 15, 2008 4:04 pm ] |
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I wouldn't put too much pressure on yourself to show off at the bachelor party. Seriously, most girls upon learning that you're at a bachelor party will turn the bitch shields up to full blast, thinking: "No I'm not gonna get gangbanged by nine dudes tonight, thank you."  Of course still approach, but try not to be outcome oriented, the goal at first is just to improve, and get some ass along the way. 
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| Author: | stevenadrien [ Sat Mar 15, 2008 4:49 pm ] |
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LIke Fantastic said, I think that what would help most people to AA is to be detached from the outcome. Just see them as another group of friends, and act like you've known them your whole life. Of course, you can't open and talk to them like you would to your friends, but the whole point of this is to take away the fear of talking to them. If you fail, so what? Just move on. In fact, people should give you credits for even trying. At my school, i heard this kid who has no social calibration at all and like never knows what is going on went up to some hot girls at lunch and started talking to them. Everyone said he had a lot of balls, I was just sittin there thinkin, lol i can do that too, but that's not the point. You'll get credit for the action. |
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| Author: | Lanky [ Mon Mar 17, 2008 4:52 pm ] |
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Thanks for the comments guys. Hopefully I should have a interesting FR by the end of the week, not necessarily for closing but at least for approaching. |
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| Author: | L.A. Tripp [ Tue Mar 18, 2008 12:34 am ] |
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One thing to remember. Most people don't know how to read body language, and they don't always hear what is being said between you and the girl, so they don't know how the interaction turned out. So, you can turn around with a smile on your face, even if she bitches you out, and they wouldn't know what really happened. Don't be afraid to fail. If those guys had any balls they would be approaching the girls themselves. |
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