Around a month ago I started talking to a woman at work a little older than me. I've been going through an unusual time where I seemed to be getting a lot of female attention all of a sudden and this particular woman is one of them. I got her number and we ended up going for a drink the same night.

To fast forward everything went fantastic. We hit it off well and there was good physical contact. In the taxi home she told me she was married and I said that was fine and not to worry. I ended up staying at hers and when she got into bed in her underwear I made a drunken move.

To my surprise she responded and we had some pretty incredible sex. She did stop prior to the actual sex and told me to stop and I told her that was fine and not to worry but she changed her mind. Since then we see each other whenever possible. She's alone a lot.

The point of this post is that she's spoke about leaving her man. I've since found out he cheated on her at least once that she has proof for and he gives her little attention. I like her a lot but I don't want to push her on a decision. I'm just finding it more difficult as I develop feelings. Her moral compass doesn't stay still for long and whilst she never turns down seeing me she can talk about leaving her husband one minute and then say it will never happen the next. I think the fact both me and her husband are her only sexual partners ever plays a huge role. Advice?

patterns:
1.- Marriage is dead or about to be dead. (they are just room mates this could be due to finances, sexual boredom, familiarity, she already had enough)
2.- She is super sexually aroused.( Due to my dancing and escalation)
3.- She is in a long distance relationship.
4.- It is a revenge fuck due to hubby cheating.
5.- It is an open marriage( agreement that allows the woman to sleep with other dudes)
^ if you have those patterns there is nothing special you need to do, you game them the same way you normally game, the difference will be you:
1.- Re-assured them you understand.
2.- You don’t judge.
3.- You don’t kiss and tell.
4.- you show that you are just a lover and you are not planning or encouraging her to leave the marriage.
5.- You are not a clinger, stalker or have potential to become a clinger or stalker.