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| Author: | tepg [ Mon Oct 20, 2014 6:29 am ] |
| Post subject: | Social game VS cold approach game |
Hi I am writing this article so people can help me comparing social game and cold approach game. First of all background about myself. Im good looking asian (sry just to let u know about my standing) who lives in asian country. I have been gaming for 3 years and think i'm better than average asian men. I have studied mystery, RSD and text game by braddock. So I'm pretty confused between social game and cold approach. From my understanding, cold approach is about fun and trying to hype up emotion as much as you can. You approach the girl and make a scene be as random as possible by just saying wtv u wanna say (but no full retard), then get their number. Then you started texting them as soon as possible with very light nonsense topic just to get the meet up as quick as possible before emotions died down. Then you go to date and get very physical until you can pull them to your house and Fclose. However, this is not the same in social game. In social game, u need to act like a well educated high value guy and keep cool all the time. RSD confidence crazy mindset and physical game does not work because it appear to be too offensive and people become judgemental about u. my problem is when i do both game i get confused switching from 2 mode from being crazy funny party guy and calm james bond kind of guy. So can anyone add on to this thread about their success story or any epiphany they have about game. I really want to adapt this and make it become a sustainable life style for me without DLV in my social group. Thank you. |
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| Author: | oceanx [ Mon Oct 20, 2014 7:54 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Social game VS cold approach game |
Cold approach game doesn't have to be about displaying a bunch of insanity in front of the women. After all smooth, suave demeanor is all they are really looking for. In my view, a tight cold approach game naturally yields strong social circle game because the confidence you gain from actually going out in to the field and getting your own success out there carries over to every other aspect of your life. Remain congruent. Don't put on an act, but be your smooth self. |
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| Author: | Versalis [ Mon Oct 20, 2014 11:58 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Social game VS cold approach game |
RSD and Mystery are about the worst people you could ever consult about this stuff. You're right in that RSD tells you to act retarded, and randomly try to force sexual escalation, rather than calibrate escalation based on response. This is why RSD only works for good looking guys using it on drunk girls, and they'd be better off not using it at all. Your above average success comes from putting yourself out there more than most guys. It is not thanks to these two awful methods. Cold approach is different based on your setting. In a night club, yes you need more energy. In the daytime, it depends on where you're doing it. "Street game" is something I continually see suggested and it's the single worst way to meet women. Go inside of buildings or somewhere that is made to be social outdoors, like a park or a beach. As for cold approaching goals, it depends on day vs night again. In the day, you want to meet a girl and figure out if she seems interested in the first minute or so. If she isn't, tell her to have a good day and move on. I don't suggest direct unless you're very good looking and looking to date girls who are your looks equivalent. After you've opened indirect, if she seems interested, tell her you think she's cute and that's why you're talking to her. Once you've talked for a few minutes, tell her you want to do something(preferably specific, it's good to see what she's into during the conversation) and then get her number. Do not just ask for her number. Telling her you're going to go out with her on a date and getting the number for that, will reduce your number of flakes by a ton. During the night, you need to find a girl you like early and stick with her for the duration of the night. Higher approach numbers is not better. Do screen her hard up front though. Make sure she's into you, available and able to hookup later(if you're going for SNL). Hitting on 20 women in a night is a sign that you're doing things wrong - very wrong. That's a pretty brief guide for America. How well does it translate to Asia? Don't know. For one thing "Asia" is pretty vague as it covers everything from Israel to India to China to Kazakhstan to Japan to Saudi Arabia. |
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