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Author:  Anon191919 [ Thu Aug 14, 2014 8:16 am ]
Post subject:  why creating a bond is essential...
This is some funny stuff. I said this to a girl on tinder.

Most people won't care to actually read all of it but the summary is this.
I asked a girl to cuddle my cock who i matched with on tinder and by creating some kind of perverted BOND to her she ended up coming to the dark side after blatantly resisting my sexual advances.
The bond is essential. It really does not matter what the hell you say. It only matters that she feels a connection on a mental level with you that seperates you from the other guys. If you are a supermodel and say good things on tinder, imo it won't get you as far as if you focus on establishing a bond at all costs.
No bond=no pussy. Everything else is second.

Me: Sit on my face and let me eat my way to your heart ;)
her:oh sure anytime
Me: Its a good plan tho right
her: totally
me: wanna come over
her: sorry im sleeping
me: ah shit
her:sorry to dissapoint
me: want to cuddle my cock
her: ehh my pillows pretty comfortable rn
me: ah shit
me: girls on tinder never want to fuck. what should i say to girls on tinder to get them to fuck me you are a girl so you know better.
her: ya know dont be creepy lol talk to them get to know them ya feel?
me:Well I told one girl yesterday that and she told me she was gonna suck my dick and drove half an hour to my house and then she wouldn't do shit
ME: But it is such a time commitment to get to know girls on tinder ya know I dont know whats more efficent.
HER: oh that sucks did you even do anything?
ME: no nothing at all :( i used to tinder in the beginning of summer and fucked a few girls but now its just not comin together ya know what i mean
HER: What did you say to them?
Me: I just got them to come hangout and sealed the deal
Me:How can i get more girls to come over my percentages aren't very high Ive had like 800 matches
HER: IDK how do they know you're not a serial killer or something
I mean hey maybe id suck your dick but you could kill me so I"m not gonna take any chances
Me: Idk why girls dont just google the dude like the internet will tell you anything
HER: Yea idk what to tell ya use winky faces girls like winky faces
me: Ok ill try it on you... ;) ;) ;) ;)
her: also dont say cuddle my dick thats weird
her: be nice tell them theyre pretty that'll work
me: you are teaching me a lot what else should i do?
her: just be like we should hang ;) and if they yes you're in
me: we should hang ;)
Her: GOod one
me: you are supposed to say yes idk how good you're advice is its not working.
her: try it on a different girl duh
me: well i like you now we have been bonding
her: see that was good ialmost wouldn't mind hooking up with you now
me: do you want to get some icecream instead
her: where do you live?
me: My town, my number is .....

We will see if she ends up fucking me. Still pretty hilarious though.
Author:  WillEdward [ Thu Aug 14, 2014 9:30 pm ]
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I like the playfulness but it's dragging on a bit and you're qualifying yourself. Keep it light and playful and suggest an activity and time to set it up and if she agrees, go for the number. Keep it light and fun over text for a few messages and solidify logistics for the meet. She just needs to have some attraction, which she already has as you've matched, and be comfortable enough with you to see you. You don't need to create a deep bond over Tinder or text, just give the MED (minimum effective dose) and seal the deal in person.
Author:  Anon191919 [ Fri Aug 15, 2014 1:24 am ]
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I like the playfulness but it's dragging on a bit and you're qualifying yourself. Keep it light and playful and suggest an activity and time to set it up and if she agrees, go for the number. Keep it light and fun over text for a few messages and solidify logistics for the meet. She just needs to have some attraction, which she already has as you've matched, and be comfortable enough with you to see you. You don't need to create a deep bond over Tinder or text, just give the MED (minimum effective dose) and seal the deal in person.
I agree, but it was just a joke. There are so many matches on tinder that you just kind of get mixed in with the other 30 dudes she is talking to at that time. When she said no I just started messin around for my own amusement. But my point is if she feels some sort of bond to you it will put you above the other 29 guys she is talking to and make you stand out because everyone tries to set up logistics without makin her even smile or laugh.
Author:  hugge [ Fri Aug 15, 2014 11:58 am ]
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I'm not sure I would say you've created a bond. I would rather say that you have built comfort. At first you were a stranger, and just like she said you could as well be a rapist. By continuing texting playfully you slowly built some trust and comfort. You also showed her some vulnerability by talking about your "failures" with other girls, which is a very seductive thing to do (it is part of building trust and comfort).

So I have to disappoint you and say no, you don't really have a bond with her yet (all right, maybe a small one, but hardly anything that counts). A bond to me is all the secrets you share with each other, things that none else knows about, and a deeper understanding of each other's needs. But you haven't got there yet since you need to get to know each other and experience things together first.
Author:  neo87 [ Fri Aug 15, 2014 1:46 pm ]
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What happened?
Author:  Anon191919 [ Sat Aug 16, 2014 5:29 pm ]
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she drifted off into the sea of tinder matches. oh well.
maybe it was because I told her to cuddle my cock
Author:  DJ_Z [ Sat Aug 16, 2014 8:57 pm ]
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So you posted an interaction that did not result with your getting laid, and then say we should do what you did.

#KJ
Author:  Warped Mindless [ Mon Aug 18, 2014 12:35 am ]
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So you posted an interaction that did not result with your getting laid, and then say we should do what you did.

#KJ
Image

Anyways, hope you get the lay.
Author:  TheSocialStatus [ Mon Aug 18, 2014 12:54 am ]
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Wow what a complete kj. Spit better game you sound like somebody who never see's pussy/
Author:  Ardour [ Mon Aug 18, 2014 1:21 am ]
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Firstly i'm surprised she even replied to begin with TBH.

Secondly, thats not really a bond.

IMO you stopped too early. It was going well, you were having banter and then you threw your number at her and vanished.

She said "I mean hey maybe id suck your dick but you could kill me so I'm not gonna take any chances" and you started talking about google.

And also "see that was good I almost wouldn't mind hooking up with you now" to which you invited her out for ice cream. She wanted to know more and you turned cocky with "my town".

I would reopen with "have you managed to google yet that I'm not a rapist murderer then?"
Author:  Anon191919 [ Tue Aug 19, 2014 12:21 pm ]
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It was just for fun I think it is suprising she answered at all which is what I was pointing out.
Author:  Ardour [ Tue Aug 19, 2014 5:41 pm ]
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It was just for fun. And that is pretty much the key. If it's fun for her too she will continue talking. Then you can get sexual. Then you can meet. Then you can fuck.

You don't want to make a bond. You want to make her enjoy herself.
Author:  DJ_Z [ Tue Aug 19, 2014 10:17 pm ]
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It was just for fun I think it is suprising she answered at all which is what I was pointing out.
You're missing the point a few of us made. It didn't work. She did not come over, your penis was not insider her. This was funny, but unsuccessful. It's a funny story, but don't post a thread and claim how something is essential, then use an example THAT FAILED TO GET HER.
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