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Author:  sugarwallz616 [ Wed Jul 09, 2014 7:41 am ]
Post subject:  Why women settle for less?
So i've been doing a lot research into how attraction works and PUA in general, and i've gathered pretty solid information on what women look for in a man (High social value, alpha male qualities, looks and figure to a certain extent etc. etc).

But there are some women/girls that baffle me.

Me being of a college age I see more women and how they interact with men that... well for a lack of better words suck! These guys really have nothing going for them at all.

I've seen women with sorry looking dudes and not pay any mind to men that would logically be more attractive to a woman (looks, money, alpha male traits, perfect balance between "bad boy" and gentleman, etc.) and instead for for beta guys (guys that are "whiped", treat women poorly, misogynistic, broke, ugly, brash, physically weak and/or small, etc.)

This is what i see alot with alot of attractive women with no good men.

My question is what are these "low-class" guys doing that the so called "alpha" guys are not doing, because i would sure like to know.
Author:  BrandonMarshall [ Wed Jul 09, 2014 11:36 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Why women settle for less?
People in general settle for less..... most guys do as well.

If she wants average let her have average. If that's what she accepts in her life then she's gonna do you no good anyway! She possibly has character flaws & baggage you wouldn't wanna deal with anyway.

Go for women who want excellence! Go for a woman who expects more (in a good way)
Author:  JohnnyUtah12 [ Wed Jul 09, 2014 12:10 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Why women settle for less?
Quote:
So i've been doing a lot research into how attraction works and PUA in general, and i've gathered pretty solid information on what women look for in a man (High social value, alpha male qualities, looks and figure to a certain extent etc. etc).

But there are some women/girls that baffle me.

Me being of a college age I see more women and how they interact with men that... well for a lack of better words suck! These guys really have nothing going for them at all.

I've seen women with sorry looking dudes and not pay any mind to men that would logically be more attractive to a woman (looks, money, alpha male traits, perfect balance between "bad boy" and gentleman, etc.) and instead for for beta guys (guys that are "whiped", treat women poorly, misogynistic, broke, ugly, brash, physically weak and/or small, etc.)

This is what i see alot with alot of attractive women with no good men.

My question is what are these "low-class" guys doing that the so called "alpha" guys are not doing, because i would sure like to know.
Nope. I have NEVER seen this in my time on this planet. You are missing something that women find attractive about these "slobs".
Author:  NaughtyNapoleon [ Wed Jul 09, 2014 4:05 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Why women settle for less?
pre selection or social proof or they are freaking good in bed.. you don't know.

It's worth to observe this thing but afterall it's better to focus on improving yourself overall and get more field experience.

Work harder & play to win dude if you want to get those girls.
Author:  Mr_International [ Tue Jul 22, 2014 3:56 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Why women settle for less?
This isn't a tournament. It's first come, first serve.
Author:  Jay (Majik) [ Wed Jul 23, 2014 1:07 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Why women settle for less?
Women want a man who will fuck them like a cave man.

Stop doing so much studying and do more infield research dude. It's way better to learn that way :)
Author:  Bud_Henry [ Wed Jul 23, 2014 3:00 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Why women settle for less?
It probably has a lot to do with the psychological aspects and personalities; int, ext, psychotic, neurotic, and all the sub categories. Theres more to it than just bad boy or gentleman and some match better than others. I saw a vid of Adam Lyons giving a pretty good lecture on the topic at the 21convention a few years ago. Worth checking out
Author:  Versalis [ Sat Jul 26, 2014 5:45 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Why women settle for less?
A couple of things.
First, they probably actually made a move on her, and the other guys didn't.

Second, I know two of my FWBs are seeing guys like this right now. They spend most of their time with those guys. We only see each other for fun. The sad thing is, one of those guys has been seeing her for months and they still aren't sleeping together.

I mean, yeah. He's a dorky looking scrub. Boring, jealous, bad fashion. And she's pretty cute, as well as being intelligent and generally charismatic and social. But, is he really doing well? I'd say no... He spends all of his free time and disposable income on her, and she's not sleeping with him. Though she is sleeping with me, the guy who's spent about fifty bucks on her in six months and sees her for maybe four hours a week.

He's basically like a cat that she can take in public, that pays for all her stuff, lol.
Author:  Xoved [ Wed Jul 30, 2014 8:15 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Why women settle for less?
Every woman has her special taste in men.

Don't overthink the details, you'll end up getting no where.

I've seen rich "alpha" and gentlemen guys and how most, not all, of the them keep it casual. They usually get to know the girl by talking about what they do for a job, what universities they went to and other boring subjects.

On the other hand, you're framing a financially weak guy or a "trashy" guy as a person who doesn't have anything at all. However, women tend to fall for such men because they have a lot of touching stories to tell, they've been through a lot and they can relate to people more easily because they've been there at some point in their lives. Not to mention that "rich alpha" guys have a casual life and most (not all) of them usually live a normal life with no adventures at all.

Hell, if I was a woman, I'd rather talk to a guy who has interesting topics to talk about rather than talking to some guy who talks about nothing but his latest paycheck.

That's just my opinion of seeing things.
Author:  snapshot99 [ Wed Jul 30, 2014 8:35 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Why women settle for less?
Pre-selection works both ways.

If you are seen with hot women on your arm, women will want in on your action.

The same applies to women but to beautiful even more so, let me explain:

Don't you expect guys to trip over themselves and each other to date hot women?

In reality, the hotter the women the higher your expectation on your part that she's probably taken.

So what happens when that sizzling hot babe is single? And single for longer than a week?

You'll probably think something is wrong with her, maybe think she crazy or lesbian or something.

So her social value(attractiveness albeit her physical hotness remains intact) starts decreasing and when to stop from becoming socially bankrupt, she starts dating these guys that you'd not typically expect her to date.

The other benefit of having this beta-male around other than for paying for meals, shopping and listening to her cry about her menstrual cycle, is that alpha guys/players/pua will look at her current guy and convince themselves that they better than him and should be with that hot babe.

Then you'll have scenarios like given above where the pua is getting what he wants but the bf is still in Friend with no benefits-mode.

Women will protect their public/social image to death, use it to your advantage.
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