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Author:  fultongreene [ Tue Jul 08, 2014 1:50 pm ]
Post subject:  Reach out to hb9, no answer, where from here?
Here's the story: Spotted a gorgeous hairdresser at place I go to, knew I had to ask her out next time I went. Fastforward a month (last week), go in for late haircut and its only her and two others there. Start talking about food trucks and events in town, invite her to a tuesday night event and grab her number. Tell her I will be out of town for a week and will reach out to her when back.

Sunday night, send here a text:

Me: Hi x, its fultongreene, the guy with the now great haircut. I just got back to town from trip, I'll call you tomorrow so we can figure out a time to get together this week.
Her: Hi love!!!! Sounds good

Next night, call around 9 pm, no answer.

Her: Hey! Sorry i missed your call just got home from the gym cooking dinner right now
Me: Great minds think alike, I just did the same
Me: Give me a call when you're finished.

Never heard back from her. Event is tonight, but storm is coming in anyway, so likely a no go. Don't want to blow her up, what do you all suggest from here?
Author:  CharlesFinley [ Tue Jul 08, 2014 2:28 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Reach out to hb9, no answer, where from here?
She seems friendly enough, but I think she's flaking on you without actually flaking...

Like a "fade out".

I'd leave her for a few days and try again, if she hasn't contacted you by then. If she pulls the same crap then she's just not that into you.
Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Tue Jul 08, 2014 2:57 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Reach out to hb9, no answer, where from here?
She's likely going to flake on you, or she would have made contact.

Girls flake because not enough value/tension was built. As a result she at least thinks she’s good enough for you , so even if she flakes, she’s sure you’ll be chasing her later. This is not a “cancellation” to her, just “postponement” from a try hard guy like yourself.

I say fuck THAT!

Since the dark horse money is on flaking, time to flip the script on little Miss Options.

FLAKE on her 1st!

Send: "Hey, I gotta blow you off tonight, something amazing came up!" "I'll give you another chance soon!"

P.S. Why is this in the lounge?
Author:  fultongreene [ Tue Jul 08, 2014 4:00 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Reach out to hb9, no answer, where from here?
Word, thank you for the responses friends.

I told her I wouldn't be in town for this week, so never explicitly invited her. I am likely just going to shoot her a text today along the lines of, "hey was going to see if you wanted to join to food truck event tonight, but something else came up. You can tag along next week"

work on other interests in the meantime
Author:  fultongreene [ Tue Jul 08, 2014 4:01 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Reach out to hb9, no answer, where from here?
Quote:

P.S. Why is this in the lounge?
My mistake
Author:  Anon191919 [ Mon Jul 14, 2014 4:49 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Reach out to hb9, no answer, where from here?
Quote:
Word, thank you for the responses friends.

I told her I wouldn't be in town for this week, so never explicitly invited her. I am likely just going to shoot her a text today along the lines of, "hey was going to see if you wanted to join to food truck event tonight, but something else came up. You can tag along next week"

work on other interests in the meantime
If a girl said that to me i would think to myself... "F*** you"

Its possible its the same the other way?

I think you could get the same message across in better words. Something like "Hey sorry to be a flake but tonight I think I'm going to do so and so.... Would you want to reschedule for next weekend?"

This way you don't seem like a douchebag. You just seem like a polite busy dude who pulls way more girls than a douchebag.
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