'Vin DiCarlo - Pandora's Box' I'm 110% sure of this woman's type; The Seductress. Advice regarding this type; talk about sex like it's no big deal, while conveying passion not hornyness. To also appear mysterious, and have her see a whole other side to me, make her curious, and get her to chase me.

She's known me a long time, but we're going on our first date soon, she is unshockable, but there's things she doesn't know about me.

1) I have infrequently been bisexual (she is openly bi herself)
2) I have recently gone 100% cold turkey on porn, due to psychological effects that meant I couldn't reach orgasm (could fuck for hours but never finish), can only allow myself to orgasm with real women (been doing this for about half a month and today I orgasmed from sex with a woman for the first time since I was 18, I'm 31)
3) I feel that she may have been raped, or suffered some trauma of a sexual nature in the past, and was thinking of bringing this up as a cold read, in a sympathetic way obviously. Rape has been in conversation before but in the context of some films it occurs in, that she to my surprise said she liked, (I didn't).

What I want to know is will discussing any of these show that I am comfortable with who I am/emotionally stable etc, or will they just be instant death, or downright weird on a date?

(The place we see normally see each other isn't good for such conversations, due to interrupts, which is why she doesn't already know them. - Just saying that to nip in the bud the 'if you were comfortable why doesn't she already know blah...' response.)

Also reading 60yoc - Risk Creepy/Awkward, creating tension. Seems to suggest these are good ideas, but I'm not good at judging that.

Thanks.