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Author:  ice_melter [ Sat Mar 01, 2008 4:37 pm ]
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hiii guys

I got this (very) strange situation. Since I started with PUA my personality began to change. In a way that's good, i used to be a hardcore gamer, gaming was my life lol. But although I was changing steadily, I'm noticing some problems.

During my change the people i saw every day (for example my classmates) began to notice this. But even if it was a "good" change" they started to back off me because my personality began to instable. They didn't know anymore "Who is Stephan". So they were suspicious. And after i finished highschool it was like we didn't know each other anymore. After a class reunion and a couple of other parties I started to win back some respect, by showing the new stephan is the real deal.

Now the story of female friends is WAY different. I don't want to go trough the same problems I had with my classmates with them. They really mean a lot to me. So when I'm around with these friends i know a longer time, i become the shy person again. Afraid that they won't accept the new and real me. U can imagine that from the moment i notice only one of them around in a club I am, my game will be reduced to zero.

At home I'm just a chilled person studying everything that is interesting to use in field or in life.

As u can see in way there are 3 me's, but it's getting exhausting, and i don't like my game to suck when a good friend of the old days is around, afraid of going trough all those problems i had with my classmates from high school again.



does anyone else has a similar problem? Demons of the past as my wing calls it:p
Author:  ace_of_spades [ Sat Mar 01, 2008 6:44 pm ]
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Afraid that they won't accept the new and real me
Any insight into why that would happen? Don't pretend to be someone you are not - whether that assumed identity is more or less attractive in your opinion.

If your friends cannot accept the fact that you are growing and becoming a better person, you may need to make some new friends who will motivate you. But that's just my opinion.

Be whoever you want to be - that is the attractive man. But if you're just pretending, you will at some point come off as fake.
Author:  stevenadrien [ Sat Mar 01, 2008 6:49 pm ]
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If they are your true friends, they would like you no matter what kind of person you are. If they are being weird about your personality change, then forget them man. Don't damper your growth to please others.

YOU ARE ALPHA. PEOPLE RESPOND TO YOU NOT THE OTHER WAY AROUND
Author:  ice_melter [ Sat Mar 01, 2008 8:32 pm ]
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thx mates, i still need a lot to learn :)
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