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| Author: | TheSavant [ Wed Apr 23, 2014 2:26 am ] |
| Post subject: | Broke friendzone but buyer's remorse? WTF? |
Ok I met this chick not so long ago. I could tell she was attracted to me but she told me she wasn't looking to date anyone right now but was cool being friends. I agreed. So we went out and I escalated like crazy. We were making out in the club in no time. She did have verbal resistance saying " i thought were are only friends, why are we kissing?" I'd reply saying "well... i'm a very affectionate friend..." and smirk at her. And she would laugh at that, so i figure i conquered that shit test... After that night, we still texted each other good night. So I thought everything went perfect. I made a followup text saying how was her morning, no reply. Then I texted this two days later... Me: Hey xxx, last week was fun. Lets meet up again this week yea? Her: Yeah... I wanted to but I don't like how you were kissing me and all. I honestly thought we were going as friends. Not as affectionate friends. Me: I find you attractive, so i'm not going to hide that. But if I made u uncomfortable, that wasn't my intention... So i apologize for that. Partly ur fault for looking so cute that night though... U probably should wear ur pajamas next time No reply. I just don't understand it because that night she was as into the kino touching and making out as I was but a few days later she regrets it? WTF?? It's confusing. Any closure as to why she thinks that way would be helpful. My only guess is she felt deceived as she thought I was only going to be a "beta friend" with her, she didn't think i'd be able to break that comfortable "friendzone"? |
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| Author: | Vlads [ Fri Apr 25, 2014 8:21 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Broke friendzone but buyer's remorse? WTF? |
Quote: Ok I met this chick not so long ago. I could tell she was attracted to me but she told me she wasn't looking to date anyone right now but was cool being friends. I agreed. So we went out and I escalated like crazy. We were making out in the club in no time. She did have verbal resistance saying " i thought were are only friends, why are we kissing?" I'd reply saying "well... i'm a very affectionate friend..." and smirk at her. And she would laugh at that, so i figure i conquered that shit test...
you didn't fucked her when you could at that night
After that night, we still texted each other good night. So I thought everything went perfect. I made a followup text saying how was her morning, no reply. Then I texted this two days later... Me: Hey xxx, last week was fun. Lets meet up again this week yea? Her: Yeah... I wanted to but I don't like how you were kissing me and all. I honestly thought we were going as friends. Not as affectionate friends. Me: I find you attractive, so i'm not going to hide that. But if I made u uncomfortable, that wasn't my intention... So i apologize for that. Partly ur fault for looking so cute that night though... U probably should wear ur pajamas next time No reply. I just don't understand it because that night she was as into the kino touching and making out as I was but a few days later she regrets it? WTF?? It's confusing. Any closure as to why she thinks that way would be helpful. My only guess is she felt deceived as she thought I was only going to be a "beta friend" with her, she didn't think i'd be able to break that comfortable "friendzone"? |
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| Author: | In$tinct [ Fri Apr 25, 2014 11:46 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Broke friendzone but buyer's remorse? WTF? |
Exactly. You didn't fuck her so now you are boyfriend material, and she doesn't want a boyfriend right now as she clearly told you so. |
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| Author: | TheSavant [ Sat Apr 26, 2014 2:47 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Broke friendzone but buyer's remorse? WTF? |
so basically that chick was only good for a one night stand and not friend with benefit? U know i probably could have gone all the way but her mom started calling her towards the end of the night and I panicked. Maybe I should have been more insistent on going all the way. I was groping her while making out with her in my car but her mom kept calling her cell. The girl kept saying we should go, we should go, and I gave in. Thanks for the input guys. |
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| Author: | In$tinct [ Sat Apr 26, 2014 12:28 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Broke friendzone but buyer's remorse? WTF? |
If you want friends with benefits, you still fuck her on the first meet so I don't understand how that changes things... |
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