Are you getting her off, or just fingering her a little? Is she completely naked, or does she still have clothes on? Are you naked, or do you have clothes on? Those are all gonna be BIG factors in this, not just minor details like most people seem to assume.
Don't get her off until you fuck her, otherwise she will have the ablility to say, "I got what I wanted, have a good night."
Don't touch her pussy at all until she is completely naked (first time only pretty much, unless she continues to do this).
Don't take your pants off (some people say don't even take your shirt off), until after she is completely naked.
These are all matters of demonstrating who is dominant, who is in control of the situation and ways of ensuring that she goes along with you, because she's going to be doing what you expect of her. If you let her get your clothes off and isn't fully naked, then she's got the power. If she still has even panties on and you've got your hand in them, then there's a barrier in between you two and she's not doing it for you, she's doing it for her, that's bad behavior and we don't reward that, so you don't touch her.
If she doesn't comply with these and tries to get you to touch her before it's time, or get her off without having sex with you, or get you naked, then you stop it, break rapport and let her know that you'll be leaving, or if you're at your place, just get up and start doing stuff on your computer, she'll come back to you.
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