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Author:  avtostro [ Sat Mar 22, 2014 3:40 pm ]
Post subject:  What should i do
I've made this account with the reason to get help...from you guys :) i apologise if this is the wrong section for posting my question, since i see guys asking before me, only have general questions, but yet i don't know where else i should ask this...

There is this particular girl i like, butlet me first just give you some info and back story
Im turning 18 this year, she's turning 16...althought she's younger i find her as mature as my peers...she's friendly, fun, interesting, smart, talkative. The kind of girl i'm looking for :)
She was in a relationship for quite a long time(14 months i think), she broke up with her bf about half a year ago. Yes a long time ago, BUT! Probably it's the way her BF broke up...he texted her saying it's over, making out with more than 5 girls the day after break up. I know she didn't get over that. She had been in an dating-kissing relationship with 2 guys since, but got scared and didn't move on from there...she is a hard to get girl because all the shit happened to her
We know each other, even flirted a bit, but i am not sure, how she sees me; as a cool friendly dude or a hot, cool dude. She seems interested in me a bit, but still i can't figure it out in which way.

I am asking you, what can, should i do? Should i talk with her a bit more and somehow ask her out? I'm lost :/
Author:  Michelangelo87 [ Sat Mar 22, 2014 8:31 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: What should i do
You say she seems into you, what gives you that impression? What sort of interest does she show you?

Do you ever hang out just the two of you, if so perhaps you can run a few routines to get her to open up and make her feel comfortable with you?
Author:  avtostro [ Sun Mar 23, 2014 1:44 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: What should i do
Quote:
You say she seems into you, what gives you that impression? What sort of interest does she show you?

Do you ever hang out just the two of you, if so perhaps you can run a few routines to get her to open up and make her feel comfortable with you?
well the IOI's. Flirting, eye contacts, touching.
I know i should've done my shit already, but again i don't want to loose a possible friend. She is a really cool girl, not the bitchy one, she's like the cool homie girl :D so if i'd ask her out, being denied, that would kinda fuck up things :P
Well as you've found out we are teens, which means we mostly go out once a week and not neccesarily to the same place. On friday we were. We were alone for some time and i've almost went in for the kiss, when we were interrupted by some mutual friend greeting us. So yeah, barely any time for ourselves, but if we meet again, that ain't no problem to do so..
I'm not really a fan of routines, i like my shit flowing natural
Author:  hugge [ Wed Mar 26, 2014 9:01 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: What should i do
At your age things tend to be fucked up, so don't expect anything else. As she is only 16, she is probably more vulnerable than an adult and reacts stronger to break ups. I can understand that you want to go for the kiss and get some action, but I would recommend just spending time with her, to make her trust you. Be the rock in the storm.

I also recommend that you are honest about your intentions. Keep the sexual tension alive, show her that you want her, but keep your hands away (you can of course touch her in a friendly way, hug her and such) until she shows that she wants it too. This way you will make her trust you more.

Don't be afraid to ask her out. If she says no, show her that you accept her decision but that it makes you dissapointed and/or sad (if that's how you will feel about it). You can say something like "ok, too bad, I was looking forward to see you, but maybe another time then". Never get angry or in a bad mood though. Don't let it affect you. This will hopefully make her feel remorse. And if you ask her out week after week, just as happy, hopeful and naive everytime (it's all in how you do it), she will not be able to resist. Just do "cute" things to her without ever expecting anything back, and always in a good mood, and it will melt her heart. Promise! :)
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