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Author:  Hejsan [ Tue Mar 11, 2014 11:24 am ]
Post subject:  Options and morals
Hej guys,

pick up is final dropping out the fruits of the hard work :D. However things are getting usualy more complicated for me the deeper I am going into the rabbithole. The more I keep on fucking the more my head fucks me back. Thus I would like to hear your opinion about morals and stuff.

There is this one girl I am dating since closely 2 months and we spend a fun time together. Hiking, partying, talking and fucking, the full program. We are seeing each other like every 2 to 3 days. On the weekend we see each other for a whole day + night and sometimes just the evening 9 moring. However she will leave in about 5 months and might come back after a year, so our future is kinda limited. She is sometimes also afraid that I might dump her and stuff like that. However I told her that I won’t leave her like that and we keep on seeing each other. Her facebook status also changed from being single to hidden on SPAM I get massages like how lucky she is that she had found me ... Since we two also like to do photography some pics of us travelling together are online but not the kissing couple pics.

However there is also another girl in another city (150km afar) which is interested in me and we kept talking about everything. I know her for like half a year and we meet like once every month. Last time we ended up naked in bed. At the moment she is currently kinda busy with studying and when I asked her out for a next date she didn’t seem to be in a big rush. Nothing like she is not interested in meeting me but she has other things to do as well. No big issue for me. We didn’t discuss anything about a LTR yet. However I offered her to visit me for a weekend in the next few weeks. Something we discussed over some longer period of time. I might see her this weekend because I am in her city.

However I would like to hear your opinion on this subject and how you would handle this situation. What options do you think I do have? Would you think its somewhat bad to date two girls and see where its heading towards?

Thanks for your opinions and cheers!
Hejsan
Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Tue Mar 11, 2014 2:16 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Options and morals
Your not married, nor committed to either, fuck both, keep your mouth shut.

It's that simple.

You are your own moral compass.
Author:  _Lothario_ [ Fri Mar 14, 2014 5:32 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Options and morals
Be open about it. See multiple people. Assume they're doing the same. Commit when you're at a point in your life where you can settle down and not a day sooner.

Use condoms. Demand anal.
Author:  IcingFate [ Fri Mar 14, 2014 8:44 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Options and morals
The way i see it is, if im not labelled as in a relationship, then im not cheating.

I just got into a relationship recently after "gaming" for about a year. Right up to the point where i got in my relationship, I had 4 girls on rotation that i could chat up and do stuff with whenever I wanted (none of them my current gf). It took me some months to getting to that point, but once you get there its awesome.

I remember on one occasion in particular I spent a few hours out with one girl, then asked her to come over and she declined (i think to do schoolwork or something, i forget). So right after i dropped her off I called up another chick, and she came over and I got head that night.


Game can be VERY depressing in the first few months, especially after noticing how easy girls really are. But yeah, the way i see it is if you want to keep gaming, avoid the boyfriend/girlfriend label and its morally justifiable. You're just being you. However if you are in a legitimate boyfriend/girlfriend relationship then i think thats morally wrong, because thats a type of commitment to someone youre lying to
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