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| Author: | Lava [ Sun Mar 09, 2014 9:14 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Give me your number instead |
Hi all, I've had a mad crush on this girl who works in a supermarket for a while now. I haven't had a crush on someone I don't know since I was a teenager! It went on for 6 months, yes one-nitis. I finally got some confidence and courage about a month ago and whilst paying, I asked her for her number after little chit-chat, baring in mind we've had chit-chat 2 or 3 times before in the shop. I've never seen her outside because I know nothing about her but her name, which is the main limitation. Anyway, she seemed a little surprised, but she asked me for my number instead! Something I have never experienced before...So like a little fool I gave in, with hope, she asked me for my name and where I am from seconds before I wanted to tell her whilst I was writing the number, then nothing...The following week I saw her and whilst paying, chit-chat and jokingly said "I'm pretty sure I gave you the right number", she replied "I will contact you, just give me sometime"... Yes, I didn't do things the way I wanted because of pressure of having people behind me in the queue and her colleagues around her etc, the environment! I haven't bought anything from her for a month since, she possibly saw me walk in once or twice but haven't bought anything from her til... I am interested in knowing more about this situation if anyone is experienced in such and if there's any move for survival, I've already accepted from the first time that this is pretty much a lost cause, but what do you think? I'd like to hear the views on this... |
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| Author: | Pikeman85 [ Sun Mar 09, 2014 9:42 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Give me your number instead |
Just be chill and funny about it - she will contact you, or she won't. At this point, if she's at all interested, she's seeing your reaction. A comment like, "I'm pretty sure I gave you the right number" is pretty beta. Why do you care if she calls you? You shouldn't care. If you do care, you're doing it wrong. |
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| Author: | Lava [ Sun Mar 09, 2014 9:49 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Give me your number instead |
I see your point...I guess next time I will just have the meaningless chit-chat and try and put a smile on her face, and leave it as that, honestly, all I can do given this environment... |
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| Author: | Lava [ Wed Mar 12, 2014 11:24 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Give me your number instead |
no |
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