hi, my apologies if i have posted this in the wrong place.
I am having a dillema with a girl i met. shes a stunning, german exchange student i met at a party. she was giving me looks at the party, but i am by all accounts abit shy. though i saw her playing with the music on the laptop so i found it more comfortable to tell her that she was putting on the wrong music (i was drunk). anyway we chatted for a bit, she does marketing, she thought i did nutrition (which means the gym is working lol) i told her im an art student, and she seemed to like that and we chatted about art and stuff, i enjoyed talking to her alot! i have never been one for asking for a girls number, but i had to, i couldnt let this girl go. so i saw she was leaving as the party was winding down, and i asked her for her number, she told me she didnt know it but she would give her facebook, my initial reaction was thats a cop out, but tbf she helped me spell her name and find her on fb, and she is a german student who has to get a new phone for this country, makes sense.
she started talking to me later the following day, and we got on ok, no real issues with our conversation. i told her i do longboarding as a hobby and that really resonated with her, she told me she used to do it to, and i said she would have to show me her skills some time and she replied "you will
"the following day i was feeling a tad annoyed i didnt get her number so i messaged her, and said "do you always pretend to forget your number when you dont want to give it to someone?
" very light heartedly i promise. her immediate response was her number. i then asked her out later that evening, she was going to a playboy themed night, but she was refusing to dress as a bunny. i told her i will only take her out if she dresses as a bunny. she laughed and responded only if i dress as a sheep, becasue were in wales.. and she was keen enough to ask where i would take her, i just said i had a place or 2 in mind.
anyway. she flew back to Germany for a week, didnt speak to her, and then the night before she came back she messaged me.
we chatted all week, she sent me a picture of her in town wearing bunny ears smiling i nearly died! my god! i arranged for the date on thursday but she said she didn't feel well. ok left thursday. i should point out, she went out with her friends the following day and even sent me photos of her friends and her posing. arranged for next tuesday, texts me monday, i asked how she was, stressed and ill. ok. so i messaged her tuesday, i said to her if shes not well we can leave it. i just said to her she can let me know when shes free. at this point i was a little fed up, but she continued to text me late into the evening. we even got onto the topic of relationships at one point she told me she'd been single for a while and she said its because she has high standards (which to my mind is either arrogance or a shit excuse) she text me briefly the folliiwing morning which was wednesday now were on friday i havnt spoken to her in nearly 48 hours, i am completely fed up of texting and would rather meet face to face. I am fairly certain ive buggered it, she went out last night judging by her facebook, and is online fairly regularly.. It is a beautiful day today, and man i want to go to the lake and take my longboard and her and get an icecream but if she flakes on me again, i may go insane! any help and advice would be a great help.
apologies for my appalling spelling!
