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| Author: | FlexBrah [ Thu Feb 13, 2014 6:03 am ] |
| Post subject: | Alpha male stare down? |
This happens when I walk past some dudes to class... And especially happens at the gym. Usually if I catch myself staring at someone, I try to break it immediately before they look b/c it's rude. When I catch someone looking at me I look away b/c I think they're insecure and read some shit online about being alpha male. I just Googled around and apparently this is how humans show dominance? Da fuark? Really? So I should stare these dudes down? Quote:
Animal species have ways of proving who is the alpha male. Humans are no different. We don't bash antlers or swing clubs, we determine masculine superiority with nothing else but a gaze.
EDIT: And then I read an article that says this and it makes me feel like the below is right.
Think about it. This has been occurring all your life. Two men stare at each other and the one who breaks the gaze is the weaker. The man who forces the other to look away is the alpha. It's not a sign of physical strength, it is a sign of who has the stronger personality and who carries themselves with more bravado and who is dominant within that social situation. It is very intimidating to try and stare down someone who is more manly than you. But nothing is easier than staring down someone who you know is inferior. You can improve your sense of masculinity by consciously holding your gaze with other men. Force them to look away. If they make you look away then don't worry. They are more man than you. But you can work on it gradually on people equal or slightly higher than you. The more people you stare down the more manly you will feel. And the more manly you feel the more people you will be able to stare down. Turn it into a positive cycle. Practice walking into a room and slowly surveying it maintaining eye contact with those who dare meet your gaze. Quote:
Hold Eye contact- This is like when bulls lock horns. Hold eye contact until the other person looks down. The only exception is that you shouldn’t stare so long that it becomes awkward. You KNOW your Alpha, so if someone is staring you down, they’re probably just insecure and are trying to forcefully assert their dominance over you. As long as you YOURSELF don’t let your mind be mentally dominated by the other person, they will NOT gain dominance. Always remember that you’re Alpha
IDK... I feel like it's always the insecure ones trying to stare down. I know lots of people who are on steroids do stare downs, and the reason they are on steroids is b/c they are insecure.Discuss. . . |
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| Author: | Jay (Majik) [ Thu Feb 13, 2014 7:39 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Alpha male stare down? |
Yep... This is the way nature works man. That same dominate, authoritative vibe or "stare" is powerful when its used the right way. ....Things like get girls to sleep with you... It makes it easier to persuade people in general once you understand that... |
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| Author: | FlexBrah [ Thu Feb 13, 2014 7:43 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Alpha male stare down? |
Quote: Yep... This is the way nature works man.
I'm going to assume that was sarcasm lol
That same dominate, authoritative vibe or "stare" is powerful when its used the right way. ....Things like get girls to sleep with you... It makes it easier to persuade people in general once you understand that... |
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| Author: | Jay (Majik) [ Thu Feb 13, 2014 8:12 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Alpha male stare down? |
Quote: Quote: Yep... This is the way nature works man.
I'm going to assume that was sarcasm lolThat same dominate, authoritative vibe or "stare" is powerful when its used the right way. ....Things like get girls to sleep with you... It makes it easier to persuade people in general once you understand that... You ever notice how people who are in authoritative roles... people always do what they say? Think about a cop for example... If someone is dressed like a cop, and acts like a cop (meaning they send off the same vibes that a cop would) I'd bet you that you would let that person arrest you if they tried... Your brain wouldn't know any better. You can make people THINK you are something based off of the vibe you send out through your actions and your vocal tonality (tone does play into that too) Their brain will come up with a hypothesis based off of the few details they have about who they think you are and they will act accordingly. It's the way perception works. Here's another example... You know I'm in sales... The way I talk to people on the phone (potential clients) I talk with a tone of authority, intelligence and enthusiastic. They pick up on that vibe and react accordingly. That's how nature works... Most people are creatures of their circumstance vs. creators of their circumstance. When you know what you are doing, you can create your own circumstances and situations. Or with getting girls to sleep with you... Simply act like a guy that women want to sleep with. Internalize those habits and then you become that person. That's honestly why people have success with things like boot camps... Because they become immersed by their coach and pick up on his habits, internalize them, and learn how to implement them into their own lives. They become guys women want to sleep with... Fake it until you make it. |
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| Author: | BrandonMarshall [ Thu Feb 13, 2014 11:54 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Alpha male stare down? |
it's no joke. Get out of your comfort zone when it comes to eye contact. The best thing to do is keep eye contact with a girl until she breaks eye contact first. This reveals A LOT about you and if you don't do this you will be fighting an uphill battle. |
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| Author: | RitualSlave [ Fri Feb 14, 2014 9:13 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Alpha male stare down? |
Quote: Or with getting girls to sleep with you... Simply act like a guy that women want to sleep with. Internalize those habits and then you become that person. That's honestly why people have success with things like boot camps... Because they become immersed by their coach and pick up on his habits, internalize them, and learn how to implement them into their own lives. They become guys women want to sleep with... Fake it until you make it.
Dude. This part is freaking valuable. (Thanks.)
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| Author: | FlexBrah [ Mon Feb 17, 2014 7:09 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Alpha male stare down? |
Well Awby damned! You were right again Majik! I tested it out for almost a week now, b/c I didn't wanna jump the gun, and what you said is dead on. I look other men in the eyes when I'm walking and 9/10 they look away first. Everytime I do this I get this feeling... IDK what it is but I start swinging my arms when I walk... my body posture I noticed is very good... etc. I feel like a champ too. Then it is SOOOO easy to give girls eye contact. I seriously never got IOId so much in the last few days since you told me about this. I'm locking eyes with these chicks and I refuse to break eye contact first b/c no way in hell am I the submissive one. When this happens the girl and I just both smile. Excuse me for sounding like an animal.. but I think this is what's going on. I look at other males and make them break eye contact first. Then I am perceived as more "alpha" as other males and it is MUCH easier to provide eye contact w/ women and open them. Cause I beat out the competition? Amiright? I know that sounds like some serious ape monkey animal... survival of the fittest shit... but you really gotta try it before you knock it. Thanks Majik! |
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| Author: | FlexBrah [ Mon Feb 17, 2014 7:11 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Alpha male stare down? |
Question though.. Say I am in the hood right. We all know black people in the hood will STARE YOU DOWN. If you don't know by now, go to one. Wtf do you do in this situation? They will literally get in a fight w/ you if you don't break eye contact. Accept defeat and let them alpha up on you? |
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| Author: | Monsignor Crisanto [ Mon Feb 17, 2014 8:15 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Alpha male stare down? |
All along I thought that the stare down was a very basic technique that many forum regulars already understood by the 50th post or so. Well, it appears that I'm mistaken with FlexBrah's Eureka moment. Great job bro for field testing one of the best seduction techniques out there courtesy of Majikal. As for being in the hood, assess the threat level and danger you're in. If it's something along these lines: [youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-7EMC5E_QrQ[/youtube] It will be good for some exercise and pumping up the testosterone. If the dudes in the hoodz are most likely to pop out an AK47 on yah, better BE BETA than sorry. It's basic Role Theory dude. You can't be alpha all the time. |
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| Author: | Jay (Majik) [ Mon Feb 17, 2014 2:24 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Alpha male stare down? |
Quote: Question though..
Here's the thing... Like I said, its all about the vibe you give off.Say I am in the hood right. We all know black people in the hood will STARE YOU DOWN. If you don't know by now, go to one. Wtf do you do in this situation? They will literally get in a fight w/ you if you don't break eye contact. Accept defeat and let them alpha up on you? Don't think that being "alpha" means that you have to walk around like you're going to tear everyone's fucking head off just for no reason... Think more along the lines of Joe Pesci or Denzel Washington. Think like "I'm cool and here to have a good time... But don't fuck with me cause I will tear your fucking head off if needed." It's more so giving off equal amounts of respect to everyone unless they disrespect you. Make sense? |
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| Author: | DJ_Z [ Mon Feb 17, 2014 5:02 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Alpha male stare down? |
Eye contact, then look downward and away - submissive. Eye contact, then look straight right or left and away - indifferent. Eye contact, then up and away - dismissive. |
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| Author: | FlexBrah [ Mon Mar 03, 2014 12:59 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Alpha male stare down? |
Aww yeah thanks for the posts gentlemen. Eye Contact = POWERFUL I made this big ass football player type of dude get out of my way walkin' around campus... just by having better eye contact and good body posture. I don't feel awkward now doing things that used to make me feel awkward. For example, bumping my music around people and avoiding eye contact. (Scared awkward beta) Now.. Bump my music and look around comfortably... any guys try to lock eyes I stare at 'em back. I run this shit. RAWWWWWWWWWWWR I have an animal side! I can make a girl stutter now when talking to me. I made a freaking 10 open me just through eye contact! And I needed to shave and lost weight b/c I was slacking in the gym! AWBYDAYUMN! Thanks bros |
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| Author: | Pikeman85 [ Mon Mar 03, 2014 7:45 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Alpha male stare down? |
If there's one secret magical trick in all of this, it's eye contact. Eye contact is amazing. You look at a girl correctly and she will be receptive to you. |
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| Author: | TheFury [ Mon Mar 03, 2014 8:29 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Alpha male stare down? |
If there are no girls or people you want to dominate/impress around, who cares if you look way or stare? Quote: This happens when I walk past some dudes to class... And especially happens at the gym.
Usually if I catch myself staring at someone, I try to break it immediately before they look b/c it's rude. When I catch someone looking at me I look away b/c I think they're insecure and read some shit online about being alpha male. I just Googled around and apparently this is how humans show dominance? Da fuark? Really? So I should stare these dudes down? Quote:
Animal species have ways of proving who is the alpha male. Humans are no different. We don't bash antlers or swing clubs, we determine masculine superiority with nothing else but a gaze.
EDIT: And then I read an article that says this and it makes me feel like the below is right.
Think about it. This has been occurring all your life. Two men stare at each other and the one who breaks the gaze is the weaker. The man who forces the other to look away is the alpha. It's not a sign of physical strength, it is a sign of who has the stronger personality and who carries themselves with more bravado and who is dominant within that social situation. It is very intimidating to try and stare down someone who is more manly than you. But nothing is easier than staring down someone who you know is inferior. You can improve your sense of masculinity by consciously holding your gaze with other men. Force them to look away. If they make you look away then don't worry. They are more man than you. But you can work on it gradually on people equal or slightly higher than you. The more people you stare down the more manly you will feel. And the more manly you feel the more people you will be able to stare down. Turn it into a positive cycle. Practice walking into a room and slowly surveying it maintaining eye contact with those who dare meet your gaze. Quote:
Hold Eye contact- This is like when bulls lock horns. Hold eye contact until the other person looks down. The only exception is that you shouldn’t stare so long that it becomes awkward. You KNOW your Alpha, so if someone is staring you down, they’re probably just insecure and are trying to forcefully assert their dominance over you. As long as you YOURSELF don’t let your mind be mentally dominated by the other person, they will NOT gain dominance. Always remember that you’re Alpha
IDK... I feel like it's always the insecure ones trying to stare down. I know lots of people who are on steroids do stare downs, and the reason they are on steroids is b/c they are insecure.Discuss. . . |
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| Author: | FlexBrah [ Tue Mar 04, 2014 1:03 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Alpha male stare down? |
Quote: If there are no girls or people you want to dominate/impress around, who cares if you look way or stare?
I do bro. Cause when I look away then I start acting beta. It's like a subconscious thing, it naturally happens. But when I lock horns and just make the other PUNK break away... fuaaaarrkrkkk! I start walking around like a BOSS!Quote: This happens when I walk past some dudes to class... And especially happens at the gym. Usually if I catch myself staring at someone, I try to break it immediately before they look b/c it's rude. When I catch someone looking at me I look away b/c I think they're insecure and read some shit online about being alpha male. I just Googled around and apparently this is how humans show dominance? Da fuark? Really? So I should stare these dudes down? Quote:
Animal species have ways of proving who is the alpha male. Humans are no different. We don't bash antlers or swing clubs, we determine masculine superiority with nothing else but a gaze.
EDIT: And then I read an article that says this and it makes me feel like the below is right.
Think about it. This has been occurring all your life. Two men stare at each other and the one who breaks the gaze is the weaker. The man who forces the other to look away is the alpha. It's not a sign of physical strength, it is a sign of who has the stronger personality and who carries themselves with more bravado and who is dominant within that social situation. It is very intimidating to try and stare down someone who is more manly than you. But nothing is easier than staring down someone who you know is inferior. You can improve your sense of masculinity by consciously holding your gaze with other men. Force them to look away. If they make you look away then don't worry. They are more man than you. But you can work on it gradually on people equal or slightly higher than you. The more people you stare down the more manly you will feel. And the more manly you feel the more people you will be able to stare down. Turn it into a positive cycle. Practice walking into a room and slowly surveying it maintaining eye contact with those who dare meet your gaze. Quote:
Hold Eye contact- This is like when bulls lock horns. Hold eye contact until the other person looks down. The only exception is that you shouldn’t stare so long that it becomes awkward. You KNOW your Alpha, so if someone is staring you down, they’re probably just insecure and are trying to forcefully assert their dominance over you. As long as you YOURSELF don’t let your mind be mentally dominated by the other person, they will NOT gain dominance. Always remember that you’re Alpha
IDK... I feel like it's always the insecure ones trying to stare down. I know lots of people who are on steroids do stare downs, and the reason they are on steroids is b/c they are insecure.Discuss. . . And it's not placebo, trust. Something is definitely going on in our brains. |
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