Typical scenario is guys who attend boot camp or learn game to get a girlfriend, they bag the girl, then revert back to being a chode, she eventually loses attraction and dumps him. Boot camp again. Rinse. Repeat.

To the guys who are single and looking for a girlfriend, I want to know why you want a girlfriend. A lot of these kind of guys on here criticise the so-called "bad boys" for treating women like shit, playing mind games and being misogynistic.

NEEDING a girlfriend is a fucking selfish thing to need. Yes, you might think that you're the fucking knight in shining armour saving your damsel in distress by protecting her from all the horrible creepy PUAs who just used her for sex, but in reality, you are the most selfish one of all. You want a girlfriend so badly, because you want to feel good about yourself. You tell yourself you're doing it all for her, but you're not, you're doing it all for your own validation and your own sense of self-worth. Or you're just lonely and you are trying to use a woman to fill the empty emotional void in your life. "Using" a woman to fill an emotional void in your life is far worse and far more selfish than using her for sex. At least the sex gives her orgasms!

And at least PUAs are honest about their intentions and give the girls the option of great casual sex with no needy strings attached. If a girl pushes for a relationship and you like her then fine, go for it. But if you really want a girlfriend, stop looking for her and she will come to you, chase you and invest in you. I'm not saying don't approach women, but I am saying stop putting pressure on them to go out with you. They often only want your dick anyway, not a boyfriend. I get used for sex all the time. What about my feelings?