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| Author: | pleasureseeker [ Mon Jan 27, 2014 1:57 am ] |
| Post subject: | being a "challenge" thing is bullshit for some guys |
I used to think that being a challenge, giving girls time to miss you, not hitting her up two texts in a row, only hitting her up to hangout and not talking to her in between dates was the way to go... but I experiment a lot and I no longer think this rule is golden. I recently have been experimenting with talking to a girl EVERY single day after I meet her, replying almost instantly regardless of how long she takes to text or call back. I even text her the next day if she stops replying. I always act happy and don't let the IOD's bother me at all and plow through them. I also pretend that each girl is different than other girls or somehow special to me, and I offer to help them with homework a lot. This has been working for me EXTREMELY well. however I have only tested this on 4 girls so far but it's working. All my girls are between 18 and 22. I think if your attractive and your personality is attractive it doesn't matter whether you play hard to get or not. If it was reversed and a pretty girl liked you, would you be turned off just because she shows high interest and wants to talk to you a lot? I don't wait 2 days to call/text them either. I text them the moment i get there number, and then again the next day. I also talk to them on the phone for an hour that the night of the next day. |
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| Author: | CyberTiger [ Mon Jan 27, 2014 8:16 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: being a "challenge" thing is bullshit for some guys |
Question: - Do you cut your responses short or create a "mysterious aura" of some sort? - Or are you yourself? In that case please give an example on which subject(s) you talk about deep or superficial. - Do you flirt a lot/a bit during conversation on phone or text game? - What do you think is it that makes your style work and is it complementary to your character? Would be greatly appreciated if you took the time to answer my little survey ;D |
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| Author: | pleasureseeker [ Mon Jan 27, 2014 7:13 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: being a "challenge" thing is bullshit for some guys |
I should say that physically i'm attractive so IDK if this will work for other guys but it's working for me. I don't talk about myself so much, but I do ask them several questions and write long texts with a lot of emoticons. I reply usually instantly If I can. It's a little bit of work but I've been getting lay's much much more consistently I never try to dhv or brag actually I "DLV" I tell girls I'm a bit shy and that I'm a bit of a geek and that I don't meet a lot of women. I think this is just a lot of comfort for her. I think many college girls care way more about comfort and don't care much about attraction. |
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| Author: | CyberTiger [ Mon Jan 27, 2014 7:34 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: being a "challenge" thing is bullshit for some guys |
I see. Your comfort building method for your texting is indeed faszinating. Especially that 1 hour call I think is a key element. Thank you for supporting my research  May I ask one last question, how do you react in case they ignore your calls/text once/more often? |
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| Author: | neo87 [ Mon Jan 27, 2014 11:59 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: being a "challenge" thing is bullshit for some guys |
This isn't to question your assertion as I agree that the whole "do things to make her crazy for you" instead of be yourself and have standards is bs. But, what are your results? Are you sleeping with these girls? |
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| Author: | pleasureseeker [ Mon Feb 03, 2014 4:53 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: being a "challenge" thing is bullshit for some guys |
[quote="neo87"]This isn't to question your assertion as I agree that the whole "do things to make her crazy for you" instead of be yourself and have standards is bs. But, what are your results? Are you sleeping with these girls?[/quote] about 1/5th of the ones I liked. so far, I have left a lot of uglier targets though because I didn't feel like hitting them up much. I'm mostly going for young girls 18-22 many of which I suspect are virgins (not sure I never ask)... also, I have a fetish for fobs which often take several months of comfort/escalation. so far only the ugliest girl has blown me out... and i'm not 100% sure it's a complete blow out.... she said it's because she thought I was fake and honestly I might have been. I wasn't planning on sleeping with her. I just wanted to test my new strategy. The others I have shown extreme interest in and texted with a relationship frame, calling them baby using <3's bullshit like that. I get a lot more shit tests and a lot more resistance with this strategy though. I often text 3 or 4 times IN A ROW without getting a reply. I'm always smiling and using a lot of enthusiasm in my texts. You have to maintain the confidence level hardcore. I don't know if this strategy will work for average or ugly guys. I try to call now and then as well, but honestly I hate calling it's so time consuming, so I don't call THAT much. |
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