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| Author: | BrandonMarshall [ Mon Jan 20, 2014 8:02 pm ] |
| Post subject: | 7 Tips to Conquer "Approach Anxiety" |
So I was talking to my boy “D” on SPAM the other day during a free 30 minute SPAM session. He was telling me that his main obstacle in dating women was “APPROACH ANXIETY!” My first thought of this is... who the fuck came up with this bullshit? So now the fear of approaching woman is a disease now? Let’s get this straight man... every single man on planet earth has had a fear in approaching women. IT’S NOT A DISEASE . It’s not worthy enough to even be deemed with a term such as “Approach Anxiety” like it’s some sort of sickness a doctor prescribed to you. You’re totally normal! Professional Musicians who have been dropping platinum albums still have butterflies in their stomach before they get on stage. Stand Up Comedians such as Kevin Hart still has the initial fear before he walks on stage. Some of the greatest pick up artists in the world whether it’s Gambler or Mystery still to this day have that fear in their mind before they approach women. Unbelievable right? Before I tell you how to conquer approach anxiety I need to let you know it doesn’t exist... it’s a natural human reaction. It’s flight or fight... it’s a defense mechanism that has been in our brain to protect us from dangerous situations. The problem is our brain sees approaching women the same thing as getting ready to go to battle. Our subconscious mind can be tricky! The great part about it is when you actually do approach her the fear leaves your body completely... and everything is ok! The most damage you’re doing to yourself is convincing yourself that you have some kind of disorder... that’s bullshit. I get butterflies too before I approach a hot woman even though I’m totally confident to talk to her. My reaction before talking to a hot woman is like “holy shit holy shit holy shit!!!” but then we start talking and the “approach anxiety” disappears. I used to defeat myself so I understand what you are going through. If I could count the amount of hot women that seemed interested in me but I pussied out to talk to them... ughhh it makes me want to kick myself even to this day! If I could count the amount of women in the past I was wondering “should I kiss her yet?” it’s mind boggling how many times I could have kissed a hot girl and let fear talk me out of it. Sometimes I wish I could even go back to high school with the knowledge I have now... so many girls used to show me they’re interested and I was too pussy to make a move! They could’ve been holding up a sign saying “please fuck me now!!!” and I still would have talked myself out of it because of this make believe disease “approach anxiety”. Approach Anxiety is called “being human”... and even though it holds a lot of us back.... We can just as easily conquer it and date the hottest women this world has to offer. 7 QUICK Tips You Can Apply RIGHT NOW to Conquer “ Approach Anxiety” 1. Life is a game.... disconnect yourself and don’t take anything personally 2. You can meet women anywhere! (starbucks, the gym, the club, bars, street) 3. If things seem hard remember it’s only in your head... F.E.A.R (False Evidence Appearing Real) 4. Be happy with yourself and the reality will become natural to you. 5. Think of what it’s like as the woman’s perspective. Would she not be flattered to have a man approach her in a respectful manner? 6. Let go of expectations... there is no outcome. When you are in the moment and stop stressing for a result you feel more relaxed 7. Women are looking for guys to approach them believe it or not... she will be very disappointed if you like her (and she sees it) but you don’t talk to her... if you don’t approach her you’re disappointing HER as well. |
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| Author: | Turn Up the Night [ Wed Jan 22, 2014 12:22 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: 7 Tips to Conquer "Approach Anxiety" |
'Approach Anxiety' doesn't exist - its a ridiculous marketing tool used by tools to convince us that its a problem. Embrace it and see it as the motivation that the reason you feel nervous is because you have just seen a girl that you want, therefore must go and speak to her. Its 'Approach Excitement' - that feeling inside you is your adrenalin going up to prepare you to say something nice to a girl you fancy. Honestly if you had been told by the markets that it is a positive thing, you wouldn't have pointless products attempting to help kill it off. In fact that feeling should be the last thing you want to destroy and if you do attempt to remove it (and indeed succeed) then I pity you. Hell, I'd even be open that you feel nervous and tell a girl she makes you feel nervous because you're being real. |
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| Author: | BrandonMarshall [ Wed Jan 22, 2014 3:13 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: 7 Tips to Conquer "Approach Anxiety" |
^ love it |
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