I would simplify it with one statement: Be an attention whore. Honestly.
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| Author: | grizzler [ Thu Jan 16, 2014 8:23 pm ] |
| Post subject: | How would you simplify pick-up? |
This is for those of us who believe that someone doesn't have to wade through tonnes and tonnes of material to learn how to pick up chicks. What would be your way of making it simple? What would be the few sentences you would say to someone new to this to simplify the whole thing? These would be mine. 1. Grow some balls! In my opinion this is the most important aspect, more important than than being a fountain of PUA knowledge. You need to be the one to attempt to move things forward, whether with girls or socially, and if you get rejected than shake it off, suck it up and move on to the next one. Experience is the best education possible, I believe that someone with balls will always eventually succeed, even more than someone twice as smart as him. 2. Forget about status, just keep her laughing I think people get too hung up on status and attraction when you should be focused on one thing, does she enjoy herself when she's with you? If she enjoys your company she will want to be around you as much as possible. Simple! Forget about "DHV" and just keep her laughing during the interaction. 3. Touch, touch and touch One way to avoid the "friend-zone" is to be on touching terms and much as possible. Sometimes it can be a little tricky to kino in a way that isn't creepy but if you keep trying experience will teach you the right way and make it second nature. 4. Find out all her favourite things I don't think you need to establish a "deep connection" or become her therapist, you just need to find out what she likes. What is her favourite food? What are her favourite places to go? What are her hobbies? What's her favourite music etc. This will give you direction on what to do and where to go with her and will always keep the interaction enjoyable. Those are my 4 sentences. Anyone who agrees with me that pick-up can be simplified to this extent please state what your few things would be. Thanks. |
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| Author: | Warped Mindless [ Thu Jan 16, 2014 8:52 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How would you simplify pick-up? |
1) Max out your looks 2) Flirt with women 3) Have some balls When you approach a women, 99% of the time shes going to think your either fuckable or not. This means you either pass her looks threshold and are good enough looking for her to fuck, or you dont and are too ugly. If she finds you to ugly its a waste of time to try and game her. A lot of new guys dont like to believe that. They want to believe that they can get any girl no matter what but thats BS. Think of it this way, if a ugly approaches you, and you find her ugly as hell, is there really anything she can say or do that will actually get you to put your dick inside of her? Doubtful. Its the same for women. However, if she does find you fuckable then whats the simplest way to get her to jump on your dick? Is it by making her laugh? No. How about showing her you have "value" and impressing her? No. how about making her horny? YES. What happens when you get horny? You want to fuck and its the same way with women. Now all you need is the balls to approach and not act like a little girl. |
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| Author: | hugge [ Fri Jan 17, 2014 1:13 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How would you simplify pick-up? |
I would simplify it with one statement: Be an attention whore. Honestly.
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| Author: | Hunter_Foxe [ Fri Jan 17, 2014 3:13 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How would you simplify pick-up? |
To simplify pickup to one thing: Take action. Approach Anxiety? Approach. One-itis? Move on. Shy? Go out more. Relationship died? Dump her ass. No wings? Go solo. Flakes? Stop going for the number and go for the pull instead. You all know the answer to your own questions = Take action. People who smoke know it's bad for them but they cannot stop until they just take action and quit, no nicotine patches, no cigarettes, just quit. Fat people often remain fat for life. They know the right answer. They know they eat junk and don't exercise. They know they just need to eat healthy food and go to the fucking gym. Guys who are bad at game are just lazy. They take comfort in how shit they are with women. They'd rather discuss how bad they are than take action. "Just do it." |
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| Author: | Semimembranosus [ Tue Jan 21, 2014 6:33 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How would you simplify pick-up? |
start approaching women |
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| Author: | Turn Up the Night [ Wed Jan 22, 2014 12:00 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How would you simplify pick-up? |
"I find you very attractive, lets go out sometime." |
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| Author: | n00bpua123 [ Sat Jan 25, 2014 1:59 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How would you simplify pick-up? |
Hmmm.. Simplify? Ok. Day Game: Open 1-set -> Talk -> Set up date -> #close Dance Floor: Open -> Dance -> Escalate -> #close Requirements? Basic grooming, basic fashion and basic dancing skills. You don't even need confidence. I'm not making any jokes. You only need to handle approach anxiety. Other requirements? Just be normal. |
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