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| Author: | hellomynameis [ Mon Dec 30, 2013 12:05 am ] |
| Post subject: | Defense Techniques: How to Handle Competing PUAs |
What are some well known defense tactics to deflect other guys (PUAs) from interrupting you mid-game? Situation: You're at a club, and you're talking to a girl. About 10 minutes into the conversation (a good conversation), another guy introduces himself and invites himself into the conversation. What would you do? How would you handle this situation, i.e. deflect the guy while being a gentleman/mature. |
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| Author: | Jay (Majik) [ Mon Dec 30, 2013 7:38 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Defense Techniques: How to Handle Competing PUAs |
1. Blow him out- Make him look like an idiot. Every shot he takes at you, take it to an extreme. (example: “NICE SHIRT FAG!” “Thanks man! I actually have another one in blue too! I’m glad you approve!”) Say that with a stupid, cocky, arrogant smirk on your face and watch the girl become more attracted to you. Remember, it is not about the spot light in the bar… it is the audience. Losing your frame to someone who throws a shot at you is a beta move. 2. Befriend Him- Direct your conversation towards him. Get his attention and teach him something. Explain something to him and allow your target to hear the conversation (not necessarily get her involved.. You want to ultimately get rid of him.) Demonstrating that you are able to make friends with even someone who is trying to make your value appear less will put your targets attraction THROUGH THE FUCKING CEILING. By teaching him something or involving him in YOUR conversation, you are demonstrating your social intuition and your inner confidence by taking authority over his actions while maintaining control of your own. 3. Ignore Him- The straight up, rockstar mentality. This, in my opinion, is the most effective way to show that you truly are the leader of fucking men. Act as if you are smoke and each shot he throws at you is just a rock that passes straight through. What is REALLY cool about this technique… If you maintain eye contact with your target and continue the conversation as if he doesn’t exist, she will sense your strong frame and you can FEEL that emotion coming from her. Bottom line… Dealing with other dudes all comes down to frame control. How you want to handle him really is based on the scenario and current mood. |
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