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Author:  dynamitedj [ Thu Nov 28, 2013 3:50 am ]
Post subject:  Avoiding breaking Sexual Tension & Baiting

Here's the situation,

I am in East Asia (to account for any cultural differences). The girl lives slightly outside the main city where I am in (on campus). She is a "natural female player", trying all kinds of silly little games all the time to put her in the "being chased" frame. She came to my city once, but we only had an hour, but we had an awesome time. She went back and the energy fizzled out as we didn't see each other for a month and I told her, I am not much into "whats'apping", because I wanted to maintain the energy to get her to come back.

She comes back after a month, we have an awesome date. I know she is a player, so when the energy is at the top, I pull a surprise on her and have to leave "all of a sudden". (Because I am in a pretty conservative city, I am not going for first date lays anymore, unless the girl is really that type). Amazingly this sends attraction through the roof. I get another 20 mins with her after that, trying to help her get a cab. She floods me with IOI's during this time, but I know logistically we wont be sleeping together, so I maintain my intention to leave. She goes back but is carrying a lot of "sexual tension". Her texting/calling is through the roof, last few days, and I keep calls very short & fun, which is keeping the tension high and she is totally chasing me now.

I played a little joke on her last night, and then followed up with a call. She gets angry on phone after the joke as she thinks its not a joke BUT her compliance is still very high, so I know its an expression of her "sexual tension". She texts me this morning, saying she is angry, I say why, she says "call me, I will tell you". I tell her, I am busy at work and will call her later.

Question is: What do you do from here? I know the wrong content in this call and completely swap positions or let the TENSION fizzle out. My aim is to get her to visit me this weekend (and despite all the tension she is playing her little games, like "I have to do xyz" (she cant resist this) but I don't want to push her at all, just bait her into coming.

So the question is, how would you handle this telephone call so you do not do anything that will make the "sexual tension" fizzle out. She wants me to call her and comfort OR chase her and knowing that this girl is very fickle, I know one wrong move and her interest level can dip. I want the call to be perfect and ideally want to plant a couple of baits for her to come over this weekend. Look forward to some ideas from the awesome guys here (Call is due in a couple of hours).

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