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| Author: | TheFury [ Mon Nov 25, 2013 5:24 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Sleeping with her on first date and dating her |
I am curious how many of you guys think that it is easier / harder / or the same to turn a girl you sleep with on the first date into a girlfriend versus if you sleep with her on later dates. Note, I am not asking if you WOULD date a girl who slept with you on a first date, just if you think you can convert them to girlfriend as easily, more easily, or harder than "normal" (if normal for your is not a first night lay) |
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| Author: | Melodical [ Mon Nov 25, 2013 6:20 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Sleeping with her on first date and dating her |
It's easier, the sex and intimacy release a lot of oxytocin which works as a bonding/connection hormone. |
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| Author: | TheFury [ Mon Nov 25, 2013 8:02 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Sleeping with her on first date and dating her |
Quote: It's easier, the sex and intimacy release a lot of oxytocin which works as a bonding/connection hormone.
Yes, I believe this to be the case as well, by far, yet I constantly get in a seddit debate with guys who somehow think taking it slow actually benefits anyone.
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| Author: | vicparkguy83 [ Tue Nov 26, 2013 1:05 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Sleeping with her on first date and dating her |
When a chick says "i wanna be swept of my feet" she basically means "I wanna be turned on real quick an have awesome sex ASAP" There's almost no such thing as having sex too early. My last LTR I met briefly at the casino, swapped numbers, 2 hours later drive to her place, sex within 15 minutes. Dumped her 2 months ago she still calls me begging to come back. |
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| Author: | Melodical [ Tue Nov 26, 2013 6:11 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Sleeping with her on first date and dating her |
Quote: Quote: It's easier, the sex and intimacy release a lot of oxytocin which works as a bonding/connection hormone.
Yes, I believe this to be the case as well, by far, yet I constantly get in a seddit debate with guys who somehow think taking it slow actually benefits anyone. |
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| Author: | Heywood Jablowme [ Tue Nov 26, 2013 6:19 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Sleeping with her on first date and dating her |
Quote: yet I constantly get in a seddit debate with guys who somehow think taking it slow actually benefits anyone.
Because they were raised by their Mommies. And that is "The right way!"
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| Author: | Wall1e [ Wed Nov 27, 2013 6:29 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Sleeping with her on first date and dating her |
Quote: Quote: yet I constantly get in a seddit debate with guys who somehow think taking it slow actually benefits anyone.
Because they were raised by their Mommies. And that is "The right way!"Wallie |
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| Author: | Melodical [ Wed Nov 27, 2013 7:01 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Sleeping with her on first date and dating her |
It's not hardwired. Hardwiring is preset evolutionary heuristics. It's just a belief system. People usually give you your beliefs (like your mom) but if it's not working in the real world it's time to start believing something else. |
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| Author: | Wall1e [ Wed Nov 27, 2013 7:43 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Sleeping with her on first date and dating her |
Yes but from my own experience it's not that easy to simply just change my beliefs, it takes quite some time. Wallie |
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| Author: | Melodical [ Wed Nov 27, 2013 10:42 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Sleeping with her on first date and dating her |
The bigger the emotional leverage the shorter the time. It's a self limiting belief someone else has given you: throw it in the bin where it belongs. |
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