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| Author: | Jigsaw [ Tue Feb 19, 2008 2:57 am ] |
| Post subject: | Best friend destroyer!!! |
I seem to have this problem whereby my best friend has the ability to attract women by doing nothing but stand there. He doesn't even act upon it either. He just relishes in the fact that girls feel mysteriously attracted to him and I cannot for the life of me figure out why so many girls like him. He is not a particularly attractive guy. The only thing that he has going for himself is an ill deserved sense of self worth that seems to radiate from him. Today for example a girl I know said to me "who is your cute friend" and I nearly hit the roof. I need to understand why girls like the guy because, like I say, he is not particularly attractive. He is just an arrogant fucker who girls seem to like before they even speak to him. Another thing to mention is that he is completely unaware of "The Game" and the concept of a PUA and so I know that he is not using any technique that I know of. Any ideas as to what may cause this phenomenon? |
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| Author: | Jay Wa [ Tue Feb 19, 2008 3:21 am ] |
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Clearly he is doing something right! . . .Do you have any particular stories? It might be helpful to have a little more info. |
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| Author: | Xecutioner [ Tue Feb 19, 2008 4:46 am ] |
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Wow man, your problem is uncanny to one of my own. I was about ready to post this problem too. My friend is my only wingman because all my other friends either have gf's or are too comfortable in their afc complacency. This guy, however, is also not interested in looking into PUA tactics nor does he need too. I cannot figure out what he has besides looks. We went sarging (we just call it female hunting cuz he doesnt know what sarging is) and 8 times outa 10 I was the one to open the set. I would do all the attraction routines and be getting good results while my friend would just throw in some lame-ass comfort questions like "so where do u go to school?". Then, he would ask for the number before I was done and he would ususally get it. I was his wingman but he was not mine. I felt like his tool, like I was doing the hard work and he was reaping the benefits. It really pissed me off and I was beginning to wonder if I should amog him. I decided against that cuz that aint what friends are for. I thought that I should talk to him about it but all I could do is make subtle remarks about it, as not to sound like a whining pussy. Then I decided that I had only myself to blame. Maybe Im not as developed as I need to be which, really sucks. I made all this improvement just to have a defeatist realization. I think the key must be to have an alpha frame and like you said about your friend, have radiating confidence. One other thing that I just thought of, is body language. She must be aware that it is you who she is talking to. Other than that, I too need some advice on this situation. |
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| Author: | delta4ce [ Tue Feb 19, 2008 5:24 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Best friend destroyer!!! |
Quote: Today for example a girl I know said to me "who is your cute friend" and I nearly hit the roof.
That may have been a shit test for you...response if it was: It doesn't matter... he doesn't talk to girls like you.. hell, your lucky I'm talking to you. if you say that in a playful manner the attention is now on you and it doesn't even matter that they were initially attracted to him.. oh.. and btw... i think everyone has a friend like that. i do too |
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| Author: | Jigsaw [ Tue Feb 19, 2008 1:49 pm ] |
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I understand where you guys are coming from. Another thing I don't get is that he isn't the AMOG because when it comes to a battle of wits or if we are trading friendsly insults or blows I always make him look like a fool. But still the women seem to find him attractive. I think it could be to do with the fact that he seems uninterested and only acts upon it if someone actually comes to him and says "man, that girl likes you". He doesn't bother with the hard work and only goes for women that make the first move. |
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| Author: | FreeLife [ Wed Feb 20, 2008 8:52 pm ] |
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Quote: The only thing that he has going for himself is an ill deserved sense of self worth that seems to radiate from him
First of all... Why would you speak like this of your best friend...? Makes no sense... About the self worth radiating from him... That's what makes a guy attractive!
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| Author: | Jigsaw [ Wed Feb 20, 2008 9:52 pm ] |
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haha, well it's very hard to explain the kind of friendship that we have. We are good friends but we constantly rip eachother to pieces. Somehow we still manage to remain friends. It's just the way that we are acustomed to talking about eachother. Like I said it's hard to explain |
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| Author: | Mister_GQ [ Thu Feb 21, 2008 3:48 am ] |
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i aim to be that friend lol |
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| Author: | Xecutioner [ Thu Feb 21, 2008 8:30 pm ] |
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Me and my wing are really good friends. But when he gets new pussy every few days and I would be satisfied with just one girl, I become resentful when he does not look out for his friend. He doesnt encompass the definition of a wingman nor does he give a shit. He just wants to get laid at an extraordinary rate leaving broken women in his path. I do not even give him the glory of "player", because it is morally repulsive to me. I call him a whore, but that too is a title that he is proud of. Its bullshit. Anyway in way of our probelem i thought of another friend of mine. He's my best friend and for our whole lives i could say that i was socially supreme. Then all of a sudden last year he was getting with girls left and right and i couldnt understand it. He's a little goofy looking, very skinny, and he's slow in the head (still a cool motherfucker tho). The thing is, is that HE STOPPED GIVING A FUCK! completely. He didnt give a shit what the girl thought of him and he had little reservations. It was all about him, not the girl, and it was really working for him. I think that is important. That dude has been in jail for the last 8 months, haha, ladies look out in april. I just may have a new wingman. Hey Mister GQ, is it just me or is that chicks entire tit hangin out in youre avatar? |
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