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| Author: | Paramount21 [ Sun Sep 29, 2013 6:35 am ] |
| Post subject: | ITT: How do you deal with a bad night out |
A night where you go out, make approaches, and end up just not receiving much attention or having any success. So, what do you do after you come home? For me watch movie and go to bed |
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| Author: | Skylar B [ Sun Sep 29, 2013 7:14 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: ITT: How do you deal with a bad night out |
either go back out to another club and keep trying or have a late night shower and watch a movie in bed |
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| Author: | 7000 [ Sun Sep 29, 2013 11:52 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: ITT: How do you deal with a bad night out |
If I'm not having much success or I'm just not feeling it, I usually either meet up with some friends and get smashed and enjoy myself with the boys, or I go home, go to sleep and write it off. Everyone has bad nights every now and then, I don't have any routine or panic or anything when they do happen. |
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| Author: | GamesSN [ Mon Sep 30, 2013 12:08 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: ITT: How do you deal with a bad night out |
I go out, have fun and play PU when i'm with my buds. I don't make a point of it or sarge, just take advantage of the situation. If I don't score it doesn't matter, i'll stay out all night and go to sleep as soon as I get in. If I get hammered I do stupid shit and laugh at it. If I don't get drunk i'll play the game and learn where to improve. I never feel bad about a night out. It's pointless to be down if you don't score. there's 101 reasons why you didn't score: Did you not approach enough? "I didn't!" Did you approach in a bad manner? "No, my approach, however few there were, was perfect!" Were you confident? "Yep!" Did you care too much? "Nope!" Did you pine over one woman? "Yeah..." Did you neg her too much? "Nope." Did you talk to someone and not try other women? "Yep." Was there a cock block? "Nope." I find most problems is not approaching enough. Have warm up approaches. When you enter a club first thing go to a group of girls or single lady at the entrance just inside the club, walk into the group and ask "Hey, how is it tonight?", get their opinion, wish them the best and walk away. Puts you in a good frame of mind and it's the perfect first approach of the night. |
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| Author: | Playersjourney [ Mon Sep 30, 2013 2:05 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: ITT: How do you deal with a bad night out |
Try to learn what you did wrong. Did you go to the wrong places? Did you look too overeager? Did you dress wrong? If you can learn one lesson every night you go out, that's a success! |
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| Author: | gelberto [ Mon Sep 30, 2013 4:12 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: ITT: How do you deal with a bad night out |
Which I have done, if the woman or not I shall hijacking, ha ha ha |
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| Author: | hugge [ Wed Oct 02, 2013 6:06 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: ITT: How do you deal with a bad night out |
A good mindset is to never go out to do PU. Go out with your friends - they are the reason why you are out. If you have no success with the pickup part, then who cares? You are not there to flirt with women, you are there to hang out with your friends! All the PU-stuff comes as a bonus. 
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| Author: | GamesSN [ Wed Oct 02, 2013 6:25 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: ITT: How do you deal with a bad night out |
Quote: A good mindset is to never go out to do PU. Go out with your friends - they are the reason why you are out. If you have no success with the pickup part, then who cares? You are not there to flirt with women, you are there to hang out with your friends! All the PU-stuff comes as a bonus.
Myeah, just work it into your lifestyle. See a girl you work with? Get in proximity and talk to her about anything "Did you see the season finale of X yet? I'm dying to talk about it!"It's simple really, start with that and you'll loosen up. In night clubs if you wanna press it a good way to start is to enter the club then go up to a group of whatever size that are nearest the entrance. Just open and say "Hey, how is it tonight?" Don't look for an outcome, just be like "Whatever" and then when they reply ask their names, give yours and say you've to go. Puts you in a good frame of mind for the entire night. |
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| Author: | just-some-guy [ Thu Oct 03, 2013 9:52 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: ITT: How do you deal with a bad night out |
just jack off when u get home. never ceases to amaze me how u couldnt give a shit about women after u have a wank |
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