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| Author: | a3ghost [ Mon Feb 11, 2008 1:41 am ] |
| Post subject: | afc in school, PUA outside? |
Whenever I go somewhere that is not my school I tend to be able to talk to girls. Whenever I'm at my school I'm pretty much "shut off". People walk over me, make fun of me and simply think that I'm not the "social" type of guy. So whenever I'm out in the grocery store, movie theatre and another school I'm able to act like a PUA but when I'm in my own living room I have to turn everything off. I feel like superman now. How does one make a transition from being the "quiet" guy to the "alpha" guy in your high school? I don't want people to think that "oh man hes a poser" and such. p.s. I know Mystery said not to "touch" yourself unless you are with a woman. But how does one control his urges from looking at porn / masturbating? Yesterday I wasted 12 hours on my ex girlfriend without much luck. I masturbated at like 4 am in the morning when I realized that my gf was not going to give me anything. For now I will turn into masturbating because whenever I'm horny I waste way too much time searching for porn, thinking whether to masturbate or not. Is this a good idea? Like get the deed done before it does any harm you know? |
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| Author: | a3ghost [ Mon Feb 11, 2008 1:53 am ] |
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Quote: Work on your inner game and you won't have to pretend anymore. You'll always act like an alpha male, because you are an alpha male.
How does one work on their "inner game"?
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| Author: | Success [ Mon Feb 11, 2008 2:22 am ] |
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The reason I find this happens is because of the way YOU feel at school. School is your anchor for being AFC. When you're there, you expect it to happen and your mind set is different than when you're out. When you're at school pretend eveyrthing is new and unknown. Explore everything and everyone. Have a fresh start and build yourself the way you want to be seen as. |
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| Author: | x3dxFox [ Mon Feb 11, 2008 2:49 am ] |
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Quote: The reason I find this happens is because of the way YOU feel at school. School is your anchor for being AFC. When you're there, you expect it to happen and your mind set is different than when you're out. When you're at school pretend eveyrthing is new and unknown. Explore everything and everyone. Have a fresh start and build yourself the way you want to be seen as.
I think that is the truest thing I have read about HS game. I know a lot of guys that wear a shy mask around school, but when I go to the mall/club/party with them they are a completely different, more confident, person.
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| Author: | Qwex [ Mon Feb 11, 2008 2:57 am ] |
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A good thing to remember when changing stuff about yourself is, the sooner you start, the sooner it is over with. Just start being more social and people will take notice, and make it the new norm. |
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| Author: | delta4ce [ Mon Feb 11, 2008 3:26 am ] |
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hey man... i'm currently in a similar situation to you. i have no problem with girls i've never met... the problem comes with the girls i've been around in school forever... we both know that we have some sort of rep with those girls, so we tend to act the same way around them because we think that they'll notice a sudden change in our behavior... that assumption is somewhat true, but you can overcome it... GRADUALLY introduce things like kino and a C&F attitude... if you havent used either before at all, you'll find that the C&F attitude should be easier to pull off without coming off as "creepy"... kino on the other hand is a lot slower if you've failed to use it at all... so, my suggestions for kino: start off with things that don't require a ton of comfort-- things like wiping something off her shirt... killing a bug... take watever opportunity you can-- and do this in the presence of other girls youve known for a while... if you are able to, act like a pua with other girls you don't know while the girls you do know are around... this can show them that you are sociable I'll admit I don't have the best advice on kino because I'm still struggling to get out of the kinoless mode i've been in with girls at my school for the last 4 years |
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