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Author:  rain3 [ Sun Jan 27, 2008 6:53 am ]
Post subject:  dont know what to do... hanging out with an hb8<<<
alright. so im still really sure this hb8 likes me. she always initiates our msn chats and has been txting me a lil bit. a few days ago i told her how this weekend me n a few friends were going snowboarding saturday and she should join us and bring a friend or 2. she said it sounded like a lot of fun and gave me her number. we talked n figured out things wouldnt really work saturday cuz she had to work and had some family stuff to tend to.

BUT me n my friends decided we were going to go sunday 10am instead. i txt'd her about the change in plans and she said she still wasnt sure if she'd be able to come and said she would let me know either way that day. well she began texting me back that day but didnt say if she would go or not.

but now we kinda all stayed out too late and probably wont even go tomorrow, were just thinking next weekend.

while this girl will talk to me for sure over the next few days (we usually chat every night now) i dont know if i should ask her to come again. cuz it seems like she just may not like the idea. and i dont want to seem like im waiting for her to come. (or lower my value)

should i just casually bring up how we stayed out too late at a party so we didnt go? or should i just ask if she'd like to hangout this weekend?
Author:  Krylon [ Sun Jan 27, 2008 8:47 am ]
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Don't keep asking her you'll seem needy. Make plans for next weekend and tell he she IS going.
Author:  zqawsxedcrfvtbgynhuj [ Sun Jan 27, 2008 8:48 pm ]
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Don't keep asking her you'll seem needy. Make plans for next weekend and tell he she IS going.
eh, I wouldn't agree with that completely. You don't want to try and command her to come with you like that either. By saying "You are going snowboarding with us today" you are putting her in a situation to say "No" and completely destroy all the work you've put in so far.

Instead, you should continue talking to her, and somewhere in the conversations, bring up how you guys had so much fun last weekend, and you're going out again. or something to that effect. What you're trying to do is to let her know that she missed out on a good time, and that you're going out again next weekend. With that said, she will either ask to come, or just play it off.

If she asks to go, you're golden. No more work until then. If she plays it off, dont ask her to come. just leave it. If you talk to her later, you could say something to her about what you're doing again, and say something similar to "I guess you're welcome to come"

from there she can say "yeah, I'd love to" or "No, I can't." if she says no, then play it off, with something like "well that's good. we have too many people already. I only invited you because it slipped out, and I felt bad talking about it"
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