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| Author: | yogaballfairy [ Sat Jan 26, 2008 1:34 pm ] |
| Post subject: | GOING TO A PARTY TONIGHT - need help |
Alright well i just started university this year and since i live at home i havent really met any friends. A week ago i met this guy in math class however and he invited me to his party. So its very important that i form some relationships tonight either with guys or girls because i have a very small social life at the moment. Now my question, what is the best way to approach girls at parties, and what should i talk about. I find after i exhaust the usual "Where do u live, what program are u in, bla bla bla" theres nothin else to say. I want to make girls laugh and have a great time so they remember me. My goal is basically to get as many numbers as possible. So pua masters what is the best way to open and carry on a conversation at a party with the intent of making everyone have fun and to be remembered. I wanna stand out from all the AFC's at the party. |
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| Author: | rockleedrift [ Sat Jan 26, 2008 2:50 pm ] |
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well, if you want to be remembered don't ask the same boring questions like the ones you just posted "where do u live, which program" etc... You can do that a little later in the conversation at least. Just be fun, if you want an opener I've just started using one I thought of a week ago, just go up to a group of chicks, say in very serious fashion: "Ladies, I have a really important question for you... Who's most desirable/beautiful/sexy... Johnny Depp or Brad Pitt?" They'll laugh a little and be like "omg, Johnny Depp of course!", then you can high five them and whatever, bust on them if they give you a weak high five "seriously... thats the most feeble high five i've ever got". Just be fun, joke with them, treat them like your bestfriends. Act like you've known them forever. |
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| Author: | yogaballfairy [ Sun Jan 27, 2008 3:46 pm ] |
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UPDATE: So it wasnt much of a party after all maybe like 20 or 30 people. I spotted the three hottest girls there (best one was probably in 8 but had a bf i found out) and didnt talk to them right away. I tlaked to some kinda ugly girls first and finally i made my way up to the hot ones. My opener for the hot ones was this: "Hey have u seen anyone drinking pabst blue ribbon because were missing like 5 cans from the fridge, make sure if u see anyone drinking that shit you come and tell me". then i introduced myself and made her laugh and stuff. I made one mistake with her though, she asked me who i thought the hottest girl in the room was and i said honestly it was her. I geuss that was a bad move in hindsight. Apart from that i pretty much dominated the party though, people always got out of my way wen i was walking and by the end i had a rapport with everyone (going in knowing noone). |
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| Author: | Roads [ Sun Jan 27, 2008 8:32 pm ] |
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Isolate when you number close. I fucked up by trying to number close chicks when they're with their friends. You can target multiple HB's in a set, but isolate irst. Granted the party was over and we were leaving, but I actually did not close the hotter target. Oh well. |
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| Author: | Jay Wa [ Sun Jan 27, 2008 10:49 pm ] |
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^^ A few thoughts on isolating at parties: I find it easier to isolate at parties because the women hold a presupposition that you "know somebody or the other." This substantially reduces the threat of talking to you, at least initially anyway. Also, groups have a tendency to be more inclusive and receptive to your comments because they don't want to be perceived as "the bitch(es) of the party". With that said, I would open with something casual, and then proceed with a "How do y'all know each other?" It makes for an easy first conversation and it also allows you to get quick information about your target. I would probably hold off on the eccentric DHV routines for the moment (at least until you have enough social proof). Typically, I isolate my target "inside/outside". For example, if the majority of the people at the party are inside, then I would isolate her outside by using a "Lets go get some fresh air". Now, you both share in a mutual time investment and you can easily get to know one another. This is a good point to bring out the DHV routines! (**Another important side note: Many AFCs think it is "cool" to show up late to the party. But I would recommend that you SHOW UP EARLY for the following reasons: You have time to get yourself acquainted with the SPAM; You can be the first to game on 'new' targets; and you can spend more time with the host or hostess. . .When you and your target need a room to crash in for the night, it becomes extremely helpful to know the right people!) -Jay Wa |
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| Author: | yogaballfairy [ Mon Jan 28, 2008 1:48 am ] |
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Thanks for the advice. My main problem is that once i build kinda a rapport with them i keep approaching them and talking to them over and over. It kinda makes me seem desperate i geuss because as the night progressed the hot girl kinda drew away from me and i couldnt keep a conversation. If i have nothing to say thats important / funny / watever, should i just not say anything and go talk to other people? I find when i force conversation it gets kinda akward. |
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