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| Author: | qwerty17 [ Fri Jan 25, 2008 1:55 am ] |
| Post subject: | Has this helped me or am I screwed? |
Okay, so I first met this HB9 on a large scale university ski trip almost a year ago. We barely got to know one another but ended up friendly enough. Since then we've bumped into eachother a handful of times but for some reason (perhaps I underrated her) I had never considered her a potential target. Anyway, we were both out in the same pub drinking on Saturday when I recognised, as if for the first time, how gorgeous she was. We chatted for a while and the conversation was noticably more exciting and playful than previous encounters which had, to be fair, almost felt somewhat routine. I initiated some back and forth on facebook the following day and we exchanged our plans for the coming monday. We were going to the same club. Perfect. Unfortunately, the place turned out to be absolutely heaving and neither of us stayed for more than an hour. I did see her very briefly but was only able to deliver a hurried "hello" as I was trapped in an awful conversation with a girl who I'd sarged previously. The next day we swapped details about our unsuccessful nights and she went on to ask if I was going to a certain club on Wednesday. I was indeed going to the same place but unfortunately I missed this final message. As a result, I entered this club on Wednesday evening completely oblivious to her presence. When I did spot her and she called out a "hi" to me, I was in the process of leading another girl onto the dancefloor. Brilliant. When I messaged her today saying she always managed to catch me "in the midst of drama" she replied, "or in the midst of being a slut...? lol". I understand that this situation might bode well for me as it demonstrates preselection but I can't help but think I've fucked this one up. Perhaps this is an AFC analysis but her reply was curt and I can't imagine she's impressed with this kind of fucking around. There's a chance I've made her feel a bit stupid and worse I've failed to make anything happen! Thoughts and advice please..? Thanks! |
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| Author: | Archangel White Rose [ Fri Jan 25, 2008 2:26 am ] |
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Nope, not fucked up yet. You still have an easy way out. When girls bring up the prospect of you going out with lots of women, and they WILL bring the subject up, your line is as follows: Girl: "Why are you such a slut." PUA: "Me? I'm not a slut. It's not my fault women keep chasing me." (sly smile) Cocky, DHV and full of asshole humor people say they hate but really love. |
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| Author: | qwerty17 [ Fri Jan 25, 2008 3:36 am ] |
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Thanks for the reply. I agree it would be best to brush off her accusation with a flippant remark but I've noticed that this girl doesn't respond too well to C&F. Unsurprisingly she enjoys humour and teasing but doesn't tend to engage well with what I have come to consider my "knack" for playful arrogance. Within my social environment (a prestigious university) it is not uncommon for guys to use cockiness as a tool of attraction. Unless used skilfully it can become a bore. I think this girl, having been pursued a lot, has come to find herself more attracted to those who are confident, yet gracious. Basically, I need to salvage some decency out of this..? |
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