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Author:  shameless11 [ Tue Jan 22, 2008 7:45 pm ]
Post subject:  Trouble f-closing. UPDATED: SUCCESS BROTHERS!
Ok so there is this one girl I've been sarging a few weeks. We started out dating, k-closed. Saw each other once more over break, made out.

Came back to school (she lives in my building), first day she says she's sooooo excited to see me and cant wait to "do something besides poking you on facebook." So I figured... fuck finally.

So we start hooking up on my bed, her shirt comes half-way up and shes like, "my shirt stays on.." to which i replied "you dont sound very convincing..." i pull it up anyways and start rubbing/licking her gorgeous 36DDs. she coos quietly and her face is flush and soft moans begin to escape her lips. Then fucking gay CB roommate comes in. Damnit I hate move in, so she pulls her shirt down and goes to the bathroom to redo her bra and fix herself.

Since that day we've seen each other several hours each day, and i've madeout with/groped/played with her titties like it was my fucking job. she has enjoyed it and i can tell by her body language that she's getting wet, but she ALWAYS hesitate right when its about time to start pulling clothes off. i've spent a lot of time comfort building too, we talk about lots of stuff and i can make her laugh for hours on end.

last night at a party at our apartment pulled me in during a game of pong and stuck her *pierced :) * tongue down my throat.

awesome, instant DHV, and next thing you know her sorority sister has joined the fun. So I'm at the table making out with two girls at once. pretty nifty. my roomie took a few photos, maybe ill post them if i ever see em.

end of the night, she decided to sleep in my bed. we start hooking up again and i let my groin grind against hers. clearly she's getting turned on and says "ok, time to sleep, im gonna be cranky tomorrow."

so we cuddle up, talked a while about life and college and parents, then kissed and went to sleep. she kissed me before she left this morning and has been texting me (she started it) all day from class.

what the heck guys, help me out here. i am dying to f-close this one!
Author:  skittlepimp [ Tue Jan 22, 2008 7:49 pm ]
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research whats called "freeze out"

mystery's advice is the best for your situation
Author:  Roads [ Tue Jan 22, 2008 7:56 pm ]
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Skittle's way can work---it's a tried and true PUA strategy---but it sounds as though she just wants to progress more slowly than you. Looks like she really digs you, there's no risk of the dreaded friend zone, and there's no doubt that if you keep gaming her and progressing with the kino that you will bed her in time. So why take a chance by punishing her with a freezeout at this stage of the game, when you quite literally have her in hand already.

Don't fix what's not broke, and if you want the possibility of a LTR here I'd take it slow. Don't forget, you'll still have to initiate and push the action every time.
Author:  L.A. Tripp [ Tue Jan 22, 2008 11:14 pm ]
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Damnnn boy, lol. I think a part of her actually wants you to have a bigger frame than you have. With a bigger frame, she wouldn't be able to "blow you off" so easily. But, there's a detail I don't know, too. Does she see that her turning herself "off" (she's not, she's still wanting you like hell) affects you at all? I bet she does see that. I think she wants to see the fire in your eyes that tells her you're in control and you two WILL be having sex. Instead of . . . "ok honey, whatever you say". In other words, DON'T push yourself into her as in RAPE, but let her know through your body language, EC, and general confidence that things ARE going all the way. She may just want to see . . . and feel . . . and experience, the animal in you. So . . . do you have that animal in you?

Again, DO NOT push her if it comes down to her flat out telling you to stop. That's just flat out rape. But, I'm willing to bet that she's REALLY wanting you, and wishing you would take the reigns.

So, you can try that, and if it doesn't work, the other alternative is what's been mentioned already. The freeze out. Although, I have a feeling she wouldn't be as satisfied with it that way right now. Of course, I could be completely off on her.
Author:  shameless11 [ Tue Jan 22, 2008 11:21 pm ]
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LA Tripp I love your posts. I'm gonna see what happens. I kinda have a feeling that she might want more than just a fuck buddy status. She's kinda unpredictable though, and she parties a lot so IDK... I'll keep you posted. Party tonight, field report in the AM!
Author:  shameless11 [ Wed Jan 23, 2008 1:49 am ]
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Well there we have it. You guys were right. We were hooking up about a half hour ago and her shirt came off and she was like "slow down I dont want to move too fast.. i'm not a whore."
i said "i dont think of you that way. i like you."
she said "i really like you too and i dont want to move fast with guys like that, i dont want to just end up a hookup or fuck buddies.."

so i told her i respect that and we hooked up a little more than sat and talked. i think she wants to move in the relationship direction. i'm not sure what to do. ill keep you all posted though, because as of tonight i'm still single and theres over 200 people going to this party ;)
Author:  L.A. Tripp [ Wed Jan 23, 2008 1:57 am ]
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Interesting. That's still LMR though.
Author:  The Doctor [ Wed Jan 23, 2008 2:06 am ]
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Interesting. That's still LMR though.
I second that, I'd have told her, that I like her to... maybe a quick line about how "Good things take time, but great things happen all at once", and if that doesn't blast the LMR away I'd tell her I understand and freeze out.

Usually when I freeze out with a girl who giving what I would call token resistance, I don't even have to fully freeze out. I just start to leave and they ask what I'm doing, and then go No, no, no come back... please.

She wants to have sex with you, she just wants to know that you won't think less of her afterwards, and won't just "hump and dump"... that doesn't mean you need to make her your girlfriend, just create some sort of pair bond... even if it's a fairly loose one.
Author:  shameless11 [ Thu Jan 24, 2008 4:43 am ]
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Smashed through the LMR finally today. Started making out, kissed her neck, breasts, Started to finger her "my pants stay on." Did it some more, talked to her while showing her how certain spots can make her coo and giggle. Told her I understood that she didn't want me to think she was a slut, kissed her, told her I don't talk to sluts. Pants came off. She came five times.
Woo!
Author:  L.A. Tripp [ Thu Jan 24, 2008 7:58 am ]
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Good job man. As long as you keep her satisfied, she'll keep coming back.
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