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You go back and forth. It's called push pull. One minute you tell them you like their spontaneity then the next minute you tell them that they are too crazy for you and you wouldn't make a good match. You reward them for good behavior and punish them for bad, just like you would a dog. And if they are too good, then you make up stuff to punish them for, just to keep them in check.

A big part of pick up is the concept qualification basically seeing if she fits you're standards and letting her know, what you want. I noticed that some puas specifically rewarded her congruence with their q
ualifications by saying "i like you your not afraid to be spontaneous" . which is counter intuitive to my personal expetience and some other stuff I have read. When I was younger I told girls I liked them and it killed the challenge/chase and I was easily obtanable meaning I got rejected. Then I find pick up which says don't tell a girl you like her she ll know by your actions ..hut I have seen alot of good puas say it. Steve jabba, chief, dj fuji etc etc these guys are getting major pussy. Is it okay to tell a girl you like her? Is there a certain point when you do it? A certain way? Etc

"This girl is so my type!" The subtext of the confidence is like saying "I like you and I can get any girl I want because I know that I'm a ballsy badass who gets what he wants and women like it."

Giving out all power is true power.

compliment them, tell them I like you, make them feel special.

but with total ABUNDANCE ! and non-neediness.

this is real deep DHV. if you're just learning then better not.

Author:	Great-1 [ Sat Dec 01, 2012 1:47 am ]
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A big part of pick up is the concept qualification basically seeing if she fits you're standards and letting her know, what you want. I noticed that some puas specifically rewarded her congruence with their q ualifications by saying "i like you your not afraid to be spontaneous" . which is counter intuitive to my personal expetience and some other stuff I have read. When I was younger I told girls I liked them and it killed the challenge/chase and I was easily obtanable meaning I got rejected. Then I find pick up which says don't tell a girl you like her she ll know by your actions ..hut I have seen alot of good puas say it. Steve jabba, chief, dj fuji etc etc these guys are getting major pussy. Is it okay to tell a girl you like her? Is there a certain point when you do it? A certain way? Etc

Author:	VietnameseProdigy [ Sat Dec 01, 2012 1:51 am ]
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buy girls flowers, bitches love flowers

Author:	Great-1 [ Sat Dec 01, 2012 2:23 am ]
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Quote: buy girls flowers, bitches love flowers ...you serious? I just wanna smash I dont wanna lead girls on?

Author:	poeticlyskuac [ Sat Dec 01, 2012 9:10 am ]
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It all comes from your confidence level, it isn't what you say but how you say it.... You can say some gnarly shit with the right tone at the right moment. I've walked up to women and said "Wow, Doll, I'm sorry, but as a man I have to do this, you are stunning (pause and strong eye contact with a smile/smirk). I just needed to come over and introduce myself, my name is Victor (hand out to shake hers palm up)." She'll normally get really shy and you have to be kind of witty for a moment because she'll freeze up in a lot of cases. It also has to happen when you know she has attraction to you already, you don't just out and say it before there is no attraction from her end. If not you give away the power in courtship process, the person who cares the least own the interaction. You can say about anything with high confidence..... It's not an easy move, it's an advanced move. Peace and Love, Vic

Author:	Great-1 [ Sun Dec 02, 2012 7:53 pm ]
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but how do you show high confidence while saying it?

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Author:	puaninja [ Mon Dec 03, 2012 3:24 pm ]
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You go back and forth. It's called push pull. One minute you tell them you like their spontaneity then the next minute you tell them that they are too crazy for you and you wouldn't make a good match. You reward them for good behavior and punish them for bad, just like you would a dog. And if they are too good, then you make up stuff to punish them for, just to keep them in check.

Author:	poeticlyskuac [ Mon Dec 03, 2012 5:06 pm ]
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Quote: You go back and forth. It's called push pull. One minute you tell them you like their spontaneity then the next minute you tell them that they are too crazy for you and you wouldn't make a good match. You reward them for good behavior and punish them for bad, just like you would a dog. And if they are too good, then you make up stuff to punish them for, just to keep them in check. Not necessarily... You can go extreme direct if you come in with extremely high confidence, which gets perceived by her as high value. Look at guys like Steve Jabba that go extreme direct. The more I look at push-pull the more I realize it is a insecurity thing... Yeah some times you have to push pull but someone certain of themselves and words doesn't need to trip on it. I started realizing when you come in with that aura you don't even have to sugarcoat it at all... Also look at Cieran's Apocalypse opener which works a huge majority of the time. Great-1 Self-Confidence starts before you ever meet the girl... If you want confidence go buy a self-confidence book or find a confidence coach, it will help you immensely. For the body language of confidence you can click here http://scienceofnaturalgame.com/2012/03 ... tive-male/ and look at the video at the bottom as well which is about 1/2 hr on it or you can click the alpha video in my sig. Peace and Love, Vic

Author:	My Darling [ Mon Dec 03, 2012 6:04 pm ]
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I lack experience on this. But my question to the knowledged is, wouldn't the subtext be everything here, really? "I like you. subtext: you've already got me, you don't have to do anything, I've been thrown over without you doing anything." or "I like you. subtext: but you're going to need more than that to get me."

Author:	puaninja [ Mon Dec 03, 2012 7:18 pm ]
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What the other guy was saying is that confidence itself can be the overiding subtext. You walk up to the girl and tell her: "This girl is so my type!" The subtext of the confidence is like saying "I like you and I can get any girl I want because I know that I'm a ballsy badass who gets what he wants and women like it."

Author:	Matrixxx [ Mon Dec 03, 2012 11:32 pm ]
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Quote: A big part of pick up is the concept qualification basically seeing if she fits you're standards and letting her know, what you want. I noticed that some puas specifically rewarded her congruence with their q ualifications by saying "i like you your not afraid to be spontaneous" . which is counter intuitive to my personal expetience and some other stuff I have read. When I was younger I told girls I liked them and it killed the challenge/chase and I was easily obtanable meaning I got rejected. Then I find pick up which says don't tell a girl you like her she ll know by your actions ..hut I have seen alot of good puas say it. Steve jabba, chief, dj fuji etc etc these guys are getting major pussy. Is it okay to tell a girl you like her? Is there a certain point when you do it? A certain way? Etc generally you should not tell the female you like her, unless shes your GF. even then just sometimes. It also depends on the situation and if the girl is really into you. For example, she tells you she likes you 5 times, you can tell her 1 time. Try not say you "I like you", say something like "you are spontaneous, I like THAT". dont make it about her, make it about the situation.

Author:	The Doctor [ Tue Dec 04, 2012 5:47 am ]
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Quote: "This girl is so my type!" The subtext of the confidence is like saying "I like you and I can get any girl I want because I know that I'm a ballsy badass who gets what he wants and women like it." This or the subtext could also be "I like you" subtext: "I want to fuck your brains out and make you scream all night long"

Author:	-enjoi- [ Tue Dec 04, 2012 6:23 am ]
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"I like you" should be a precede a remark that validates a positive action or attribute. So by saying "I like you, you're funny." is actually stating that you like funny people, not just her. It's used in a different sense.

Author:	AFC AzA [ Tue Dec 04, 2012 6:38 am ]
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Giving out all power is true power. compliment them, tell them I like you, make them feel special. but with total ABUNDANCE ! and non-neediness. this is real deep DHV. if you're just learning then better not.

Author:	Matrixxx [ Tue Dec 04, 2012 7:31 am ]
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Quote: Giving out all power is true power. compliment them, tell them I like you, make them feel special. but with total ABUNDANCE ! and non-neediness. this is real deep DHV. if you're just learning then better not. Giving out all power is not true power. Giving out anything is doing something. NOT doing something is true power. thats what you feel in YOUR reality. but truth and reality are two different things. You feel like you are giving in abundance and non-neediness. but unfortunately due to the nature of the female, she will feel as if you are giving yourself away. If not at first in time she will. And why would you give endless compliments? that in itself is not being true to yourself. True power is being yourself and not caring to give endless compliments.

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Author:	AFC AzA [ Tue Dec 04, 2012 8:01 am ]
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man... I dont even know where to begin. its like two whole different philosophy. you're only forcing your reality to mine. you're not giving=routine, reactiveness, validation seeking. you're only NOT DOING because thats causes THEM to react to you. I ACT WHATEVER THEY LIKE IT OR NOT. I COMPLIMENT THEM WHATEVER THEY NEED OR DONT.