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| Author: | worldrunner [ Mon Nov 12, 2012 3:57 pm ] |
| Post subject: | FriendZone |
FriendZone, To me, it is a very dangerous liming belief which states that once you meet a girl you have a limited short timespan to attract her and get physical with her, because once this window of opportunity closes you'll be forever stuck in the friendzone... I used to have it and that made me screw up 100s of interactions... Now my paranoid view of the PU community tells me that the "friendzone"is a term carefully developed by master PUAs which is used to fill PU students with anxiety so that they screw up interactions, feel bad about themselves and buy more miracle products... I've been in the "Friendzone" only once in my life and actually it was only in my head, because I never dared to tell the girl that I liked at that time, that I've balls and that I find her attractive... But yeah one day after 6 months of knowing her I dared to say it and guess what? She became my girlfriend... This imaginary "friendzone" existed only in my imagination. I've seen that girls can like you or not... if they like you, you'll never be on the Friendzone, if they don't you can be rejected in a nasty way or they can tell you in a polite way that they like you as a friend. But this "friendzone" has to do with them not liking you and not with you missing this window of opportunity. Actually I've seen that if they like you time will play on your side. Of course we are humans and we are much more complicated than just mating machines, and there are many things going on in our life, these events and situations might not lead necessarily into a sexual relationship even when both persons like each other, but might lead to interactions where both persons share just friendship. Anyway in case I'm wrong I would love to hear about some techniques and tactics to get in the friendzone, I'll have a good use for them. |
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| Author: | Heywood Jablowme [ Mon Nov 12, 2012 4:21 pm ] |
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Given the right circumstances you can be put into, or eject from the "Friend Zone" at any time! It's just a lot harder to re-frame from the Friend Zone, once that relationship has been established. The good news is, if sexual attraction exists, the "It just sort of happened" quotient is always lurking in the background. The same "Laws" apply. i.e, Isolate/Escalate. That is still YOUR JOB! The quickest way I know of to be put in the "Friend Zone" is to do lots of crap for her without "reward". |
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