I have posted many times about how rejection can hurt you, hinder your progress. When you get rejected. you start to expect to get rejected. In fact, you begin to accept rejection; you are okay with it. When oyu approach a girl somewhere in your mind is the thought, the feeling ..."I can't do this" 'It's okay if she says no" "It won't work." You feel that way.
What do these thoughts cause you to do:
1.) No prepare for your approach properly
2.) To give up on an approach before you have actually lost
3.) giving a half-hearted approach
4.) Being dumb and reckless in your approach
5.) DRIFTING - drifting means to go along with the situation. To go with the flow. To go along with the pressures that you feel in the momment. AND NOT. AND NOT to take the girl to a particular place you, not to try to achieve an objective. To disregard purpose...
"If you can accept losing you can't win" (Vince Lombardi)
I remember won time I approached a girl 7 times. 7 times in a club to just get her number. 2 weeks later she was begging me to come to hear apartment. THE POWER OF BELIEF!!!!!