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Author:  BillyWhiteSh0es [ Tue Jan 15, 2008 3:46 am ]
Post subject:  The "Player Vibe"

I had a girl tell me on date two that she gets the "player vibe" from me. It didn't necessarily slow her down,.. well I don't know.. But it didn't sound like a compliment.

What do you think gives off a player vibe?

Author:  chio [ Tue Jan 15, 2008 3:51 am ]
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Being someone who can get other women.

Confidence and "sparkle" :)

Author:  The Wild One [ Tue Jan 15, 2008 3:51 am ]
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You give off the player vibe when you're good at getting her attracted but don't build enough comfort with the girl. She thinks all you care about is sex and so you get put in the player circle. The guy that uses women to get laid and is a predator. Not a good roll to play in that social circle. Comfort is where you when her over for sex. Not A1!

Author:  TX_TECH [ Tue Jan 15, 2008 5:01 am ]
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i've had a few girls i party with tell me that, two call me "pu$$y chaser" like it's my real name. i asked them and they said it's because they think that's my only intention when i meet new HB's, they also said it's my confidence factor....most of my other guy friends, especially those that go out with us, lack in that category tremendously
girls like confident guys, most just aren't used to guys that are and they sometimes take it as a bad trait initially because of how you act/talk

Author:  LuckyMan [ Tue Jan 15, 2008 6:04 am ]
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usually when girls say it, it's not a compliment. i have a couple of girls say this.

what gives off the player vibe is being REALLY confident, but then you only talk about other girls, or about your crazy ex and you can't get rid of her.
this is just a theory though.

Author:  BillyWhiteSh0es [ Tue Jan 15, 2008 8:24 pm ]
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usually when girls say it, it's not a compliment. i have a couple of girls say this.

what gives off the player vibe is being REALLY confident, but then you only talk about other girls, or about your crazy ex and you can't get rid of her.
this is just a theory though.
There is the pre-approval DHV that can work both ways..

I think the skill to develop is not so much to come off as a normal, non-player, guy, but rather, to win her over and make her feel as though she is different than all those other women.

Author:  speed-bird [ Tue Jan 15, 2008 10:42 pm ]
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Do you brag? I have a buddy who used to blow nonstop about his sexual conquests and how much the girls love him. I found it very off-putting.

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