PUA Forum :: BAD jealousy

Ok Went on a date with this girls last night and it was just aweful.
At first it started really well. Kissed her straight away and we headed to the bar. Had a few drinks had fun she was complying with everything and qualifying. As the night proceeded one of my friends came along to the same club and the girls just felt that we should be alone so I bounced her to a different place. Generally everything was leading to me fucking her because I was being more and more dominant.

Now at first when I wasn't drunk 2 guys approached her in the first bar. One of them when I was smoking and I just spoke to his friend and made him laugh. Eventually she wanted to go inside but the guy was super ugly.
Second guy was just ridiculous I was back from toilet and he was trying on the dancefloor she completely blow him away.
The second bar we went to though is knows as for it's gentlement inside. You wouldn't see a chode, only friendly people I know that very well. But as the night went on every other dude was hitting on her. At least 3 of them and I was so pissed off. At first I said to her you are already cheating on me, creating that drama but I think after that she started not to pay attention to me and when the next guy approached her stayed with him for 5-10 minutes.

At that point I went completely mad deleted her number infront of her and said goodbye.

PLEASE GUYS TELL ME HOW TO handle that. I was so fucking this girl and then completely messed up.

Meh, I just think persistence is required. I think you thought 'oh boy, these guys are alphas, and chicks always prefer the alpha, no way I could compete' - SO not true.

Once a chick is vested in you, it's hard to unseat her favor for you in one night with a few minutes of flirting. Been plenty of times in my earlier years when I was on a first or second date and guys flirted with my date very smoothly and I was beta about and my date still came home with me. I'd say 100%.

You made the assumption that she didn't want you anymore, and I think that was a BAD assumption. If you had just gone and got her back, even weakly, you probably still could've fucked her.

Let this be a lesson you do not take a girl you barely know to a busy club until
1. you're fucking her
or
2. she sucking your dick consistantly.

She did what they call "pulling a turn" you think everything is going good then out of nowhere she turns leaves you for another guy right in front of you. you're not the 1st guy this has happened to. Her kissing you does not mean she's yours.

Yeah you made a big mistake bringing her to the club. You said you were there from 9pm to 3am. Why in the hell would you spend that long in a club when you main goal is to get her home and fuck. Too many things could go wrong in 6hrs

Let this be a lesson you do not take a girl you barely know to a busy club until
1. you're fucking her
or
2. she sucking your dick consistantly.

^ I fucked plenty of girls on second encounter in a busy club, the problem was not the busy club, actually is a good idea to take her to a busy club, since you can escalate fast, then take her home... The problem was that the op was TOO NEEDY! period end of story... Women will shit test you being with other dudes in clubs, happens to me all the time, you let them do that, and open other girls, or ACT NON REACTIVE...

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Sure its possible to take a girl out to a club on a 2nd date and come out ok but why chance it.

I still find it weird that so many guys were trying to hit on his girl while he was standing right there. There must have been so much space in between them, guys just thought they could cut in. You don't want to be stuck to a girl like glue but you do want to look like you're together.

When a guy does cut in you don't want to be too friendly you want to be firm let him know thats your chick and it time for him to excuse himself. You do this by just walking over and say "how's it going" cut inbetween him and your girl with your back towards him and tell him "take it easy or have a good night" and continue talking to your girl. They'll take the hit and leave.

Author:	NikAFC [ Sun Sep 09, 2012 10:25 am ]
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Ok Went on a date with this girls last night and it was just aweful. At first it started really well. Kissed her straight away and we headed to the bar. Had a few drinks had fun she was complying with everything and qualifying. As the night proceeded one of my friends came along to the same club and the girls just felt that we should be alone so I bounced her to a different place. Generally everything was leading to me fucking her because I was being more and more dominant. Now at first when I wasn't drunk 2 guys approached her in the first bar. One of them when I was smoking and I just spoke to his friend and made him laugh. Eventually she wanted to go inside but the guy was super ugly. Second guy was just ridiculous I was back from toilet and he was trying on the dancefloor she completely blow him away. The second bar we went to though is knows as for it's gentlement inside. You wouldn't see a chode, only friendly people I know that very well. But as the night went on every other dude was hitting on her. At least 3 of them and I was so pissed off. At first I said to her you are already cheating on me, creating that drama but I think after that she started not to pay attention to me and when the next guy approached her stayed with him for 5-10 minutes. At that point I went completely mad deleted her number infront of her and said goodbye. PLEASE GUYS TELL ME HOW TO handle that. I was so fucking this girl and then completely messed up.

Author:	pumpington [ Sun Sep 09, 2012 12:33 pm ]
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1st off don't take girls out to clubs and populated bars for dates, such a bad idea, stick to shitty pubs and coffee and other ideas that involve spots that are casual and close to your house, ideally if you can just have the date at your house that is best, until you actually have the skills to lead conversations with guys, avoid the fuck out of clubs and highly populated drunk guy areas 2nd of all, how the fuck do you just let some guy chat the girl you're on a date with up while you're right there? wtf were you doing, just sitting there? be more assertive ffs, tell them you're on a date and you'd appreciate some one on one, and if they don't fuck off, girl code your date or get her to help you out, and if she doesn't help you out, maybe you should just walk right then and there and let her take a cab home or something, then don't ever call her again or if you're desperate enough to compete, then just learn to lead at least, talk over guys, hold the attention of the set and talk about your topics and cut their threads just go on and on holding the conversation until they feel awkward and go away and if this sort of thing doesn't strike you as disrespectful and you're sitting there thinking, naw I'd put up with that, don't care, then just up and talk to some other girls/people and let her talk to what ever guy she likes, then come back and try to take her home at the end of the night, but really if some girl's going to chat up other guys and ignore you on a date... like seriously you want to bang that girl?

Author:	Gibbe84 [ Sun Sep 09, 2012 5:41 pm ]
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Best way to deal with it is by leaving the table, opening a girl using direct game and getting a quick k-close and then leaving the girl you're out with. If she likes you she'll react by going crazy and take you outta there and if she doesn't who cares as you have a replacement?

Author:	lor0001 [ Sun Sep 09, 2012 5:59 pm ]
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Totally agree with pumpington's venue advice. Day 2 is all about building comfort and sexual tension. You can't do that in a crowded hotspot. What you're after is one on one time where you can lead the interaction. Jealousy looks totally beta...but so is being passive and disrespected. In that situation you should be the alpha. Chat up the guy, blow him out and move on. "Dude that's an awesome shirt where did you get it?" Toss him a high five. Take your girl by the hand and LEAD her wherever the fuck you want.

Author:	IwantEasyLove [ Mon Sep 10, 2012 8:28 am ]
Post subject:	Re: BAD jealousy
Quote: Ok Went on a date with this girls last night and it was just aweful. At first it started really well. Kissed her straight away and we headed to the bar. Had a few drinks had fun she was complying with everything and qualifying. As the night proceeded one of my friends came along to the same club and the girls just felt that we should be alone so I bounced her to a different place. Generally everything was leading to me fucking her because I was being more and more dominant. Now at first when I wasn't drunk 2 guys approached her in the first bar. One of them when I was smoking and I just spoke to his friend and made him laugh. Eventually she wanted to go inside but the guy was super ugly. Second guy was just ridiculous I was back from toilet and he was trying on the dancefloor she completely blow him away. The second bar we went to though is knows as for it's gentlement inside. You wouldn't see a chode, only friendly people I know that very well. But as the night went on every other dude was hitting on her. At least 3 of them and I was so pissed off. At first I said to her you are already cheating on me, creating that drama but I think after that she started not to pay attention to me and when the next guy approached her stayed with him for 5-10 minutes. At that point I went completely mad deleted her number infront of her and said goodbye. PLEASE GUYS TELL ME HOW TO handle that. I was so fucking this girl and then completely messed up. A man should always have a plan. Your problem seem to be a logistics and perceptiveness problem. Before you take a girl out to a place you should know the place and what to expect in that place. You need to have a feel for that environment. Girls like spontaneity; that's bull shit, guys like pussy. You need to have a plan to get the pussy. Also, you need to be on guard every single time you take a hot girl out. Every single man is a potential threat to take your woman from you, because guess what most would take your woman from you if they had the power to. It seems like you did not plan the evening out well and that you let your guard down amongst wolves. Honestly, I don't fault you for not standing up to the guys because they caught you off guard and you probably didn't know how you wanted to handle the situation. This is why its important to imagine worse case scenarios and what you would do in those scenarios. Prevention is the best solution for cockblocking, avoid the problem before it happens. I wouldn't even want guys talking to my girl, because quess what...the starting quarterback might be better than the back up QB, but if the back up QB keeps taking snaps he will eventually show the starting quarteback up. Stay strong.

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Author:	Techgame [ Tue Sep 11, 2012 10:32 am ]
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Meh, I just think persistence is required. I think you thought 'oh boy, these guys are alphas, and chicks always prefer the alpha, no way I could compete' - SO not true. Once a chick is vested in you, it's hard to unseat her favor for you in one night with a few minutes of flirting. Been plenty of times in my earlier years when I was on a first or second date and guys flirted with my date very smoothly and I was beta about and my date still came home with me. I'd say 100%. You made the assumption that she didn't want you anymore, and I think that was a BAD assumption. If you had just gone and got her back, even weakly, you probably still could've fucked her.

Author:	NikAFC [ Tue Sep 11, 2012 4:08 pm ]
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Quote: Meh, I just think persistence is required. I think you thought 'oh boy, these guys are alphas, and chicks always prefer the alpha, no way I could compete' - SO not true. Once a chick is vested in you, it's hard to unseat her favor for you in one night with a few minutes of flirting. Been plenty of times in my earlier years when I was on a first or second date and guys flirted with my date very smoothly and I was beta about and my date still came home with me. I'd say 100%. You made the assumption that she didn't want you anymore, and I think that was a BAD assumption. If you had just gone and got her back, even weakly, you probably still could've fucked her. I know man she was even hinting it I was just drunk and couldn't do it for any longer. I was surprised how was she doing it. It happens all the time to me I just need to be patiant because. We went out at about 9pm and it was already 3 am.

Author:	Reo [ Wed Sep 12, 2012 12:04 am ]
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She did what they call "pulling a turn" you think everything is going good then out of nowhere she turns leaves you for another guy right in front of you. you're not the 1st guy this has happened to. Her kissing you does not mean she's yours. Yeah you made a big mistake bringing her to the club. You said you were there from 9pm to 3am. Why in the hell would you spend that long in a club when you main goal is to get her home and fuck. Too many things could go wrong in 6hrs Let this be a lesson you do not take a girl you barely know to a busy club until 1. you're fucking her or 2. she sucking your dick consistantly.

Author:	IwantEasyLove [ Wed Sep 12, 2012 12:12 am ]
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Quote: Let this be a lesson you do not take a girl you barely know to a busy club until 1. you're fucking her or 2. she sucking your dick consistantly. Or better yet, she's hanging all over you scared to lose you and not the other way around.

Author:	skills360 [ Wed Sep 12, 2012 3:00 am ]
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Quote: She did what they call "pulling a turn" you think everything is going good then out of nowhere she turns leaves you for another guy right in front of you. you're not the 1st guy this has happened to. Her kissing you does not mean she's yours. Yeah you made a big mistake bringing her to the club. You said you were there from 9pm to 3am. Why in the hell would you spend that long in a club when you main goal is to get her home and fuck. Too many things could go wrong in 6hrs Let this be a lesson you do not take a girl you barely know to a busy club until 1. you're fucking her or 2. she sucking your dick consistantly. ^ I fucked plenty of girls on second encounter in a busy club, the problem was not the busy club, actually is a good idea to take her to a busy club, since you can escalate fast, then take her home... The problem was that the op was TOO NEEDY! period end of story... Women will shit test you being with other dudes in clubs, happens to me all the time, you let them do that, and open other girls, or ACT NON REACTIVE... But anyways here is the perfect example of how to handle it: fr-humbleness-vt134860.html?highlight=

Author:	skills360 [ Wed Sep 12, 2012 9:02 pm ]
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hey guys here: [youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OHoIipZ0WJg[/youtube]

Author:	Reo [ Thu Sep 13, 2012 12:09 am ]
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Quote: ^ I fucked plenty of girls on second encounter in a busy club, the problem was not the busy club, actually is a good idea to take her to a busy club, since you can escalate fast, then take her home... The problem was that the op was TOO NEEDY! period end of story... Women will shit test you being with other dudes in clubs, happens to me all the time, you let them do that, and open other girls, or ACT NON REACTIVE... Sure its possible to take a girl out to a club on a 2nd date and come out ok but why chance it. I still find it weird that so many guys were trying to hit on his girl while he was standing right there. There must have been so much space in between them, guys just thought they could cut in. You don't want to be stuck to a girl like glue but you do want to look like you're together. When a guy does cut in you don't want to be too friendly you want to be firm let him know thats your chick and it time for him to excuse himself. You do this by just walking over and say "how's it going" cut inbetween him and your girl with your back towards him and tell him "take it easy or have a good night" and continue talking to your girl. They'll take the hit and leave.

Author:	skills360 [ Thu Sep 13, 2012 3:20 am ]
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Quote: Quote: ^ I fucked plenty of girls on second encounter in a busy club, the problem was not the busy club, actually is a good idea to take her to a busy club, since you can escalate fast, then take her home... The problem was that the op was TOO NEEDY! period end of story... Women will shit test you being with other dudes in clubs, happens to me all the time, you let them do that, and open other girls, or ACT NON REACTIVE... Sure its possible to take a girl out to a club on a 2nd date and come out ok but why chance it. I still find it weird that so many guys were trying to hit on his girl while he was standing right there. There must have been so much space in between them, guys just thought they could cut in. You don't want to be stuck to a girl like glue but you do want to look like you're together. When a guy does cut in you don't want to be too friendly you want to be firm let him know thats your chick and it time for him to excuse himself. You do this by just walking over and say "how's it going" cut inbetween him and your girl with your back towards him and tell him "take it easy or have a good night" and continue talking to your girl. They'll take the hit and leave. ^ as i said and posted a field report by little panda and a video, you ACT NONE REACTIVE, you let the other dude do his thing, and let her come back to you or you open other girls...Read the field report i linked and watch the video, those are the right way to handle it...Women will do that to you to see if you are needy dude, reactive, if you do what you suggested, the results he already got will likely to happen again...

Author:	NikAFC [ Thu Sep 13, 2012 3:49 am ]
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Great video by Tyler, I just love RSD's shit. It really makes sense to me now because all night we were having fun and all that but it was just like he said in the video. I was too possessive and she just didn't want that. Lesson learned. By the way just got laid tonight so i feel kinda alright cause the girl lives with two other chicks and I think i have a chance to fuck them as well or even have a threesome

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