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Author:  Miklo [ Fri Jan 04, 2008 6:22 am ]
Post subject:  Ex girlfriend question.

Ok, I'm thinking this can be considered one-itis. I went out with this girl almost 4 years ago now, and we got along really well. We broke up, but every now and then I think about her, especially recently. It not that I have to have HER it's just it seems the girls I have been getting don't really cut it for me. I know a big part of this is because I'm very new to this, but nevertheless. So I got her number from a friend of mine the other day, and called her today. Nothing serious just to say hi, but when she found out who I was she immediately asked what I was doing tonight ( I'm was busy), didn't talk about the past or hooking up or anything of that nature, just had a quick 10 minute conversation. She might make a good wing, or I could fuck up and fall for her. Although I'm not really thinking of getting back together. So my main question is should I wait for her to call me or should I call and try to set something up for this weekend, even if it's just to catch up and maybe get her to wing for me when i visit Austin in a few weeks.(She is in school there).

Author:  Erin [ Fri Jan 04, 2008 6:57 am ]
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coming from a girl that has ex-boyfriends coming out of her ears:

This is just my opinion, but there are a few ways you could possibly see this: A. People grow and change over time and so you could pursue it with an open mind as to what happens B. You know for sure that you aren't going to let things lead up to a relationship and make that clear when the time is right and stick to it. C. you could end up letting your fears of falling for this girl again get in the way of you going and having a good time with a girl you already have a connection with.

My opinion is to go for it. lol, you must like her if you think you could fall for her again ; ) eh?

Just my opinion :D

Author:  TrojanMan88 [ Fri Jan 04, 2008 4:18 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Ex girlfriend question.

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Ok, I'm thinking this can be considered one-itis. I went out with this girl almost 4 years ago now, and we got along really well. We broke up, but every now and then I think about her, especially recently. It not that I have to have HER it's just it seems the girls I have been getting don't really cut it for me. I know a big part of this is because I'm very new to this, but nevertheless. So I got her number from a friend of mine the other day, and called her today. Nothing serious just to say hi, but when she found out who I was she immediately asked what I was doing tonight ( I'm was busy), didn't talk about the past or hooking up or anything of that nature, just had a quick 10 minute conversation. She might make a good wing, or I could fuck up and fall for her. Although I'm not really thinking of getting back together. So my main question is should I wait for her to call me or should I call and try to set something up for this weekend, even if it's just to catch up and maybe get her to wing for me when i visit Austin in a few weeks.(She is in school there).
LoL I would try and kick start the old fling, you minds well. But other than that it does sound like the old O-zone (one-itis). But you gotta realize that you showed alot of interest by finding her number after all of those years? SO you have to do some negging lol but not too much and you have to seem like youv'e moved on with your life and your life is exciting and she would want to be apart of it if she only knew... how fun it was. (don't say this, just dhv and cause jealousy and all that good stuff)

Author:  TrojanMan88 [ Fri Jan 04, 2008 4:20 pm ]
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Why'd you guys break up? p.s.

Author:  Miklo [ Sat Jan 05, 2008 4:40 am ]
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First off, thanks for the advice. And TrojanMan I guess she was really jealous because I was spending a lot of time with some of my female friends ( whom I am not nor have i ever been more than friends with). She said that she "didn't want to get hurt".

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