Hey guys,
Didn't really have a chance to read everything. However, cause I'm in a simillar position I use kino to test the waters. It sometimes easier with my story.
KINO ESCLATION TESTS
I have been gaming this woman from just over month. My Day1 sucked caused I was suck in AFC mode not knowing how to play it. Luckily since she opened me
by offering me her number. I was on safe ground. Day 2 - I decided to up my game big time in so I initatied very light kino. As soon as we met - I greeted her with a big hug( everybody loves a hug - right
) So she didn't hesistate and we hugged. This hug is now almost ritual and everything we meet, we hug. Hugging is a great way to start kino but remember to smile 
. The hug got the date off to a good start.One of the things about kino and attraction is proximity. If she's keeping a friendly distance then any kino becomes forced and doesn't look natural. As we walk, out proxmity is so close that we almost keep walking into each other. Always a GOOD sign if you when this happems.
As we walk, I intiate further kino ( remember keep kino light im order to escalate). We head to the local Pizza restuarant and she places her bag between herself and me. My mind is saying - Bag physical barrier. I find the distance difficult for kino. I become an AFC and was about to give up
When the pizza arrives. We try talking but place is too noisy. I suggest I sit closer and she naturally removes her bag for me to sit closer. Mental note - Barrier removed, No Damage.So the place is noisy and we have to move in closer to talk. We bump legs ( all women seem acknowledge this as natural indication of interest
) She says nothing and we just talk. I continue kino keeping just to the hands. Remember that when doing kino to be sutle and observe reactions if she looks uncomfortable, Stop. She doesn't seem to mind. We dined for 4 hours and I kinoed lightly throughout. She did not even flinch and just acted natural.AFC WARNING AHEAD:
As we walk towards the station, I put my arm around her (not adviced at this stage) she was, however, to my surprise cool with this. So I'm thinking to myself - She wants me.
At the station, I put my arms around her and turn into an AFC when I go for the KISS only for her to turn slightly and say she wants us to be JUST FRIENDS FOR NOW
. I requalify her and she confirms she's single. Now all the time at the station, I had my arms around her and as soon she says NOW, I drop my arms. My demeanor changes from cool and playful to cool and disinterested. I'm guessing that she notices this she states - "This isn't a permanent state of affairs nut temporarily."So now I know something else which is that she's undecided but enjoys my playful mood and kino (thus qualifier). Now I can game other women with a clear mind and yet upping the kino with her.
Hope that helps
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