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| Author: | mii [ Sat Dec 22, 2007 12:30 am ] |
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There are two girls I work with(spare me the don’t date at work speech, I know I shouldn't’t) and I had a thing for both of them in there own ways. Both girls are attractive but girl B and me had more in common and generally got along incredibly great, cool girl all around(I mean her favorite movie this year is "No Country for Old Men" I mean come on now!. But Girl A had that untouchable draw to her because she had a boyfriend until a short while ago and every one wanted to get a chance with her, very fun and bubbly. To add to the equation on girl As side, I'm a sucker for girls that pursue me really hard and girl A did that. Well Girl A had told me how she had this last boyfriend and then one previous one for four years. Sounded Great! considering thats basically my past relationship history too. Both had there strong points but I clearly got along better with Girl B. But while I'm trying to figure out who I want to date girl A is occasionally telling me how Girl B was dating 8 guys, sleeping with many of them and even had a scare with an STD. The stories sounded convincing so needless to say I decided on girl A despite how well me and girl B got along. We started talking and dating for the last few months or so all the while she had been telling me she wasn’t seeing anybody else, wasn’t having sex with anyone else. Considering her history I felt comfortable having sex without a condom knowing she was on birth control. Well to give background on what’s coming next my general manager is a former manager of a strip club who is crazy in all types of ways, but cool and funny as shit. Crazy in that he stapled his nuts to a bar on a dare(multiple times) and put a waiters wine key up his penis because someone told him he wouldn't do it. Well anyways I got a frantic call from my brother yesterday(who also works there) telling me he needs to talk to me. I asked about what? He says I can’t tell you over the phone! I then just asked well what is it about? He then told me its about girl A! I'm walking around waiting for the inevitable story from my brother that girl A is actually talking to another guy or went on a date with someone else. At worst maybe she slept with someone else. God I wish that was the case now! He finally gets over, sits me down and tells me what has turned the last two days into the most surreal 2 days of my life. He tells me that he heard from a very reliable source that apparently last Tuesday there was a party at my managers house and that Girl A had sex with at least 2 guys from work. As one would imagine I freaked the fuck out and called her immediately and she basically confirmed the events by not having anything to say and her subsequent actions later on at work(yes I found all this out and then had work with her two hours later.) But it gets even better I call the guy who told my brother and he tells me the whole story……. The WHOLE story! Not only was it those two guys she fucked but it was also one more guy ALONG WITH MY MANAGER. Apparently my manager was getting head while the other three took turns plowing her. Basically the girl I had been dating for the last month had a train ran on her by my manager, 2 other fellow employees and one other guy. My first thought was holy shit! I had sex with her after this had happened! So now I’m freaking the fuck out that I may have caught something. I think the most fucked up thing though is that right before we had sex again I asked her if theres anyone else so I could use a rubber – She told me "NO, of course not, you’re the only guy I’m talking to!" on top of that I'm kicking myself because when I finished hearing the train story from the friend at work(he also happened to be one of girl Bs best friends) the friend basically asked why didn't I go after Girl B to begin with? I told him about those stories I heard and he basically was shocked and told me how much BS they really were and that basically none of it was true except that she did sleep with one guy since her last long-term boyfriend. So now I'm realizing MY mistake, HUGE mistake. So now its awkward at work around everyone, I want to quit but I need the income to live on, I may have screwed up my chance with a girl I've never had so much in common with. I may have caught something. I'm pissed off but I cant really be mad at my manager or fellow workers for doing it because by my own doing I didn't make it known at work that me and her were dating(I'm not a fan of bringing my personal life to everyone at work unless I know its serious). Its just so crazy because this isn't me. I don't sleep around, ive only slept with her . I always knew girl A was flirty and out there but I trully believed her when she said she had only been with two others and wasn't that type of girl. Not sure What your response will be , or if anyone will even read this given its length, but have at it. |
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| Author: | spyder2k [ Sat Dec 22, 2007 12:57 am ] |
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lol, I think you answered your own post in the first line. Get urself checked out and to be honest, I wouldn't know WTF I'd do in that situation. I would avoid Girl A? (the plowing story) like the plague. As for the other one, well. Who knows? I would drop em both. 
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| Author: | Fratguysargesbest [ Sat Dec 22, 2007 1:24 am ] |
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i think the girl A is a true PUA, if anything, learn from her. |
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| Author: | Valence [ Sat Dec 22, 2007 2:41 pm ] |
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You really should have dated both of them from the begining.... You took advice and listened to a girl that was chasing you about another girl you were into... Bad choice. Drop girl A. Talk to girl B. If girl B knows about everything and will not drop it, drop both. Another example of why not to game girls you work with. It never works out in the end. |
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| Author: | mii [ Sat Dec 22, 2007 3:05 pm ] |
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Quote: You really should have dated both of them from the begining.... If i had dated both one might have found that i was playing them both.
You took advice and listened to a girl that was chasing you about another girl you were into... Bad choice. Drop girl A. Talk to girl B. If girl B knows about everything and will not drop it, drop both. Another example of why not to game girls you work with. It never works out in the end. |
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| Author: | Valence [ Sat Dec 22, 2007 3:39 pm ] |
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That was the entire point. Why would you think that you cannot date two girls at the same time? In the future, be up front and honest. If they have a problem with it, there are many other girls out there that would not. |
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| Author: | AK47 [ Sat Dec 22, 2007 9:31 pm ] |
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that msut b awkward... hope u already went to check urself out i dont c y girl B would have anything against u, if she liked u before she still ikes u now... what happened wasnt ur fault, and there is need just tell her u were set up by girl A better yet find other girls, dating anyone who sees you everyday the whole day isnt a good idea, doesnt matter if its at work or at skool or w/e |
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| Author: | Ka [ Sat Dec 22, 2007 9:47 pm ] |
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Simple solution... Obviously get tested! then again in a few months get re-tested. In between pray (to any god(s)) Im mean and vindictive, if i were you id re-establish myself with girl A (thats right the one who played you). Id get her in bed, bang her like a dog, then throw 20 bux at her and tell her to get a better job. Then id never talk to her again. Id also reintiate things with girl B, you didnt really elaborate but it doesnt sound like you told her off or had a bad disconnect with her. Id simply start gameing girl B again. Also keep in mind that NO girl is EVER gonna tell you shes sleeping with other guys. For you to ask is DLV. Assume she is, strap on the jimmy hat and hit it, or if your feeling adventurous hit it raw. Also, whyd you trust that she regularly takes birth control? I mean obviously shes out banging dudes like crazy so its in her best intrest, but i wouldnt take what people say word for word. No one is ever gonna say, "If you put that condom on dont expect to get any...." Unless your exclusivly dateing a girl for a long time (like a year +) dont take her word for gold. I dated a girl for 4 years, hit it raw all the time, to find out she had been cheating on me. Im talking the steady 4 years of like 'hey we might get married'. As much as id prefer to go raw, my experience tells me better now. Good luck man, have to say i chuckled a little when you talked about the gang bang, but only because im not in that situation. |
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| Author: | mii [ Sat Dec 22, 2007 11:05 pm ] |
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I haven't really seen much of girl B lately and haven't really talked to her in a while. I'm not sure if i should start gaming at work anymore after this. Also to anyone reading this a girl is lying if you ask her about her sexual history. Yes looking back now it was stupid to believe her about the birth control at the time though i felt i could trust her another lesson learned. |
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