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Author:  Jaxin [ Sat Nov 18, 2006 3:49 am ]
Post subject:  cold HB won't open
Hey ya'll the worst thing happened today.
I went up to this girl I went up in the right angle right tone of voice opened over my shoulder "hey could I get a quick opinon on something", yet as I was saying that she just kept walking away staring me down.
How do I deal with girls like this?
Is there something I can do so I can open a girl like this?
Should I have gotten a pivot with me or something?
Author:  low [ Sun Nov 19, 2006 8:51 pm ]
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She may of acted cold for one of a million reasons. Chances are it was just bad timing and she wasnt in the right frame of mind. I wouldnt get worked up over it in anycase. If she doesnt respond after a second attempt then move on to the next girl.
Author:  Jaxin [ Mon Nov 20, 2006 2:39 am ]
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your right its just I think every woman should be sargable oh well.
Author:  M [ Wed Nov 29, 2006 8:14 am ]
Post subject:  cold HB won't open
Hey Jaxin,

Man, I respect you, bro, because I'm trying develop that attitude too. That every girls is sargeable. But it's tough, man, 'cause some chicks are stone cold. Sometimes, I try to remember what Sifu Mystery said in that girls aren't really mean people... it's just their bitch shields are strong. And then I try to remember what Thundercat said in that as a PUA, we gotta try not to be outcome dependent.

But any which way, I wouldn't let that one set back hurt ya too much. And no, I don't think it's a reflection of poor PUA skills. It just wasn't the right place, the right time, or the right girl. Keep fighting proud, bro... I will too.

With regards to pivots, I often find my wing woman DD makes approaches much easier. But if you gotta go 007 style (solo), gotta just barrel through that approach anxiety and do it.

Best of luck,


Respectfully,

M
Author:  Paetar [ Thu Nov 30, 2006 7:13 pm ]
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if this happens, just go to her, look in a funny/pissed mood, and tell her that you were talking to her.

most likely, it is not your fault.
Author:  Monkey [ Tue Dec 05, 2006 4:33 am ]
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Every girl IS sargeable. But there's no such thing as a girl that is sargeable all the time. If a girl is cold, she's probably thinking about everything except you. And some strange guy walking up to her and talking to her is not going to make her feel any better about it.

It's never about you, man. The problem is hers, and I wish her all the luck in the world in dealing with it. She'll just have to deal with it without you.
Author:  Jaxin [ Tue Dec 05, 2006 6:53 pm ]
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Lovedrop said on the Mystery Method Video that if a girl is unresponsive and continues to walk away during your opener just stand cool like you didn't notice they're leaving and just keep going on with your opener louder and louder. Best way to deal with a situation like that.
Author:  breastmilk [ Wed Dec 06, 2006 5:37 am ]
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Lovedrop said on the Mystery Method Video that if a girl is unresponsive and continues to walk away during your opener just stand cool like you didn't notice they're leaving and just keep going on with your opener louder and louder. Best way to deal with a situation like that.
haha... well I don't know if I'd go that far... aside from looking psychotic, even that implies that you have emotionally invested something in her. I'd walk off and chalk it up as her loss. So yeah, I'll have to oppose Lovedrop on that point.

I'm pretty new to this, so I can't really give much field experience testimony... but any burn she gives you in just a weakness in your armor of confidence. When you've perfected your armor, there will be nothing she could do that would cause you to think twice about it.
Author:  jacked [ Thu Dec 07, 2006 2:19 am ]
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what the breastmilk said is right on. You got rejected, start talking to another girl immediately infront of her and hopefully if things go good :D You should rubb it in her face by directing the girl you are with joyfully in the girls direction that rejected you. It doesn't matter what girl you choose really, just look like you are having a blast. You can always mid-way into the club go and approach her again, like you dont' remember her at all. I knew this one guy who hit on so many girls, that he honestly forgot that he already got a phone number from one girl he hit on. That guy wasn't even the best looking of many of our friends, he was just the most persistent.
Author:  thatsAwesome [ Tue Dec 12, 2006 8:15 am ]
Post subject:  It aint written in stone ...
Hmm .. as David D said , the best baseball players maby hit 50 % of all their balls , so dont feal down if you get struck out now and again. Not every girl is meant to be with you and chances are it just wasn't a good time. Best thing to do is be cool lift your head to the sky and throw a neg like " Its ok Grumpy smurf , I was just being polite anyways im not realy interested in our conversation either". end off their and move to your next target. Big part of being a PUA is to play women like the stock market , you invest in 10 companys .. that way when some fall you have atleast some others to fall back on.

Peace.
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