A new feature of the Private Membership Zone, is mentorship.
What is ‘mentorship’? A number of experienced members (Mentors) are offering to help newbies, rAFCs, or other members with their sticking points. They may offer their help via PM (private messages), email, IM, phone, or in person, but it’s up to the individual mentor.
How do you contact a mentor? Each Mentor has a ‘mentor badge’ under their username:
Click the badge and you’ll be redirected to the PM page of that mentor so you can send them a private message. Note: only PMZ members can see the badges, so only PMZ members know who the mentors are. Here's the list: mentor-list-vt12829.html
How do I choose the right mentor or mentors? Firstly, work out your PU problems/sticking points: approach anxiety, opening, attraction, conversational material, routines, comfort, isolation, closing, body language, etc. Secondly, don’t randomly contact mentors! Do some background reading about each one - they all have their strengths and weaknesses (like we all do). Then carefully choose the mentor or mentors that could help you most. Thirdly, introduce yourself to your chosen mentor(s) and contact them with specific questions! Such as: ‘After opening I run out of things to say, you got any tips?’, and not, ‘How do I get my GF back?’!
Any questions, fire away?
