| PUA Forum https://pick-up-artist-forum.com/ |
|
| What's my Problem? https://pick-up-artist-forum.com/viewtopic.php?f=25&t=12488 |
Page 1 of 1 |
| Author: | tical [ Sat Dec 08, 2007 3:02 am ] |
| Post subject: | What's my Problem? |
I started reading up on pickup this summer. I have become exponentially much more confident and outgoing. I actually talk to girls now, and I find that I am attracting them (and a lot) just by being funny and alpha. I haven't really implemented any techniques yet. Anyway, this 1 girl, which happens to be the only girl I'm interested at my school right now gets me back to my old afc self. I've tried the cube on her, but I get quiet and shy when I talk to her. Is this a confidence issue? one-itis? How can I get over this? |
|
| Author: | slyder2412 [ Sat Dec 08, 2007 11:06 pm ] |
| Post subject: | |
If you get shy and quiet then you're feeling that you have less value than her. Or it is one-itis and you simply don't want to fuck up your chances of being with her. The problem is that if you worry about fucking up your chances then you are taking away from your congruency(if she's seen u macking it with other girls). Then you will probably fuck up if you play it safe and micromanage your actions/things you say. I'm recently getting over a girl that i "didn't wanna fuck up with" because i saw her as being the MOST compatible with me than the other chicks. And if you can't be your true self, then you aren't compatible with the girl in the first place. I can only suggest... from you saying that this PUA stuff has increased your confidence/alphaness...then stay congruent to that no matter who the person is. |
|
| Author: | P.I.M.P [ Sat Dec 08, 2007 11:39 pm ] |
| Post subject: | |
I agree with slider. Also I think the cube is a little complex myself I don't like it. Many use it successfully but its not one of my favorites. |
|
| Author: | cc [ Sun Dec 09, 2007 2:09 am ] |
| Post subject: | |
you know i used to be shy along time ago now my attitude is i go out talk with beautiful woman all the time and if they wont talk back or attempt to ignore me i tell them to get over themselves walk away and go on to the next one if ones not willing to do what you want theres thousands more who are i dont waste my time on anyone any more |
|
| Author: | tical [ Sun Dec 09, 2007 5:10 am ] |
| Post subject: | |
Quote: If you get shy and quiet then you're feeling that you have less value than her. Or it is one-itis and you simply don't want to fuck up your chances of being with her.
I know I have to stay congruent, but I dont know how? Do you have any suggestions? Getting nervous around her isn't a conscious thing. The problem is that if you worry about fucking up your chances then you are taking away from your congruency(if she's seen u macking it with other girls). Then you will probably fuck up if you play it safe and micromanage your actions/things you say. I'm recently getting over a girl that i "didn't wanna fuck up with" because i saw her as being the MOST compatible with me than the other chicks. And if you can't be your true self, then you aren't compatible with the girl in the first place. I can only suggest... from you saying that this PUA stuff has increased your confidence/alphaness...then stay congruent to that no matter who the person is. When I did the cube, she loved it, but I couldnt really follow up with anything because I was nervous and couldnt think of what to say. She talks back to me, and shows interest. I still get nervous though, and I dont know why. |
|
| Page 1 of 1 | All times are UTC |
| Powered by phpBB® Forum Software © phpBB Group http://www.phpbb.com/ |
|