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| Author: | Paetar [ Thu Nov 02, 2006 6:16 pm ] |
| Post subject: | "The Talk:" DECODED |
Well, I haven't been in PUA much long, but I think that the talking is simple. Not easy, but simple. It is really true that it matters HOW you say something, not WHAT you actually say. Only you gotta say it PASIONATELY. Why? Because women trust in their emotions, and they are the followers, even in emotions. And combine these two, and you have the jackpot! Passion. That are the strongest emotions. And if women are ins seek for emotions, passion is the logically the best one. So, logically, you have to tell it passionately. That may be hard, but here are few rules: 1. EVERYTHING IS IN SUPERLATIVES. Nothing is quite good, or not so bad. for you. All is "sooo great, man if you could see it...". It all makes stronger emotions. 2. MIMICS. You are actor; if woman sees you smiling, it can only empower your funny story. And so it makes bigger passion. 3. BE NATURAL. I belive that when you do something, you have to do it well. So be, or at least look natural. It will reinforce her trust in you, so she will be more willing to belive that something is really that great you claim it is. Let's take look at the "natural" part. As soon you start enjoying your life, you'll get positive and optimistic look at everything. And you don't wish to make your lady sad, do you? I say, enjoy your life and others will enjoy it too. What ads do you belive the most? The real ones. If somebody starts cleaning grease right in front of you, instead in TV, it would be more realistic, wouldn't it? So, when you start advertise your life with passion and happiness, anyone will want it too - they'll want you. NOTE: This theory has to be more field-tested, but I have found it truthful by now. I will keep you posted. |
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| Author: | M [ Thu Nov 02, 2006 11:06 pm ] |
| Post subject: | The Talk Decoded |
Hey Paeter, I haven't been in the PUA community for long either (2-3 months), but have already spent a lot of time sarging in the field and take a few bullets. I agree with the points you've made and without knowing it, I do practice these points in the field. So in essence, I've field tested your theories, and yes, they do work. Respectfully, M |
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| Author: | Paetar [ Mon Nov 06, 2006 2:39 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Stories |
So I kept my promise and here I post. And, it surely does work. Additionally, I made a little thought about stories. I agree with Juggler on this one. He says that the stories should be not as interesting, as interestingly said. I mean, you can have a hell of a story, but if you say it wrong, it is shit. Much better is to train yourself skills to tell stories. After that, U can take anything from your day (from co-workers to TV) and make it interesting. It is good for couple of reasons. First, you will stop re-telling your stories by other people (you have no profit of this, because usually it is "a story from friend of mine", not "he-and-he said me this interesting story, plus, even if your name is mentioned, it can make you look bad becouse of persons' not having the right converstional skills). Then, you will subconsciously make your speech interesting, like you were telling a good story. Also, never tell other people about your late-night trips, and how somebody embarassed himself. It does depend of person and of embarassment, so you have to judge it very well. I, for instance, almost got ass-kicked today, so I have fresh memories. Another reason is, it will come off as hidden bragging, and it rarely does its purpose, that is entertain/impress. Much better is going somewhere with girl, and then together talk about interesting things you have seen or did as a couple (not intimate things, but seeing a car accident or so). Pepole, any questions or suggestions are welcome. |
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| Author: | xfman [ Mon Nov 06, 2006 8:18 pm ] |
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My style is a mix of all PUA tactics and filled up with some of my own routines ,e tc... but baseed on MM and supplied by a great Alpha male confidence |
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| Author: | Sovnarkom [ Wed Apr 18, 2007 3:39 am ] |
| Post subject: | My Method |
Is Basically a Mix Between the Mystery Method, Juggler Basically and some of D´Angelo But is basically MM, and Juggler Plus some of my own Any way im training, i got lots to learn |
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