PUA Forum :: Guard down too quick?

Ok, so I've never really had a problem chatting up women - I'll admit i aint loved a woman or even come close to a genuine feeling of caring for about 8 years. Ive gone through them at a good rate and i didint really care that I wasnt able to care for them. Then 3 weeks ago I meet an amazing woman.

3 weeks of sex, laughter and all that good stuff goes down. She tells me shes falling in love wit me - i return th compliment and it all feels authentic. then she starts missin dates. I warn her I dont give anyone more than 2 chances. Then this ***** misses a date I call her phone - her cousin answers. A family crisis has emerged. Ok. 24 hours later ma girl calls and asks if I can still buy those laptops etc. Avoiding the issue completey until asking if Im vexed wit her. I answer WTF do you think. She apologises profusely and I hang up.

A bit of context? She didnt quite have closure with her ex so thats possbile and also she seems a little immature.

I won't ever call that woman again cos im too proud for that shit - but im slowly going insane wondering a) what the fuck is she thinking and doing and b) How did I let myself get so atached so quikly.

I banged this fine armani model the next night and it did make me feel a little better but I'm still thinking about her all day and want some advice on how to proceed if she calls and if she doesnt. At least on how to get her out of my mind.

All help is appreciated.

Author:	whupthatho [ Sat Nov 24, 2007 1:35 am ]
Post subject:	Guard down too quick?
Ok, so I've never really had a problem chatting up women - I'll admit i aint loved a woman or even come close to a genuine feeling of caring for about 8 years. Ive gone through them at a good rate and i didint really care that I wasnt able to care for them. Then 3 weeks ago I meet an amazing woman. 3 weeks of sex, laughter and all that good stuff goes down. She tells me shes falling in love wit me - i return th compliment and it all feels authentic. then she starts missin dates. I warn her I dont give anyone more than 2 chances. Then this ***** misses a date I call her phone - her cousin answers. A family crisis has emerged. Ok. 24 hours later ma girl calls and asks if I can still buy those laptops etc. Avoiding the issue completey until asking if Im vexed wit her. I answer WTF do you think. She apologises profusely and I hang up. A bit of context? She didnt quite have closure with her ex so thats possbile and also she seems a little immature. I won't ever call that woman again cos im too proud for that shit - but im slowly going insane wondering a) what the fuck is she thinking and doing and b) How did I let myself get so atached so quikly. I banged this fine armani model the next night and it did make me feel a little better but I'm still thinking about her all day and want some advice on how to proceed if she calls and if she doesnt. At least on how to get her out of my mind. All help is appreciated.

Author:	Starbuck [ Sat Nov 24, 2007 2:12 am ]
Post subject:	Re: Guard down too quick?
Quote: Ok, so I've never really had a problem chatting up women - I'll admit i aint loved a woman or even come close to a genuine feeling of caring for about 8 years. Ive gone through them at a good rate and i didint really care that I wasnt able to care for them. Then 3 weeks ago I meet an amazing woman. 3 weeks of sex, laughter and all that good stuff goes down. She tells me shes falling in love wit me - i return th compliment and it all feels authentic. then she starts missin dates. I warn her I dont give anyone more than 2 chances. Then this ***** misses a date I call her phone - her cousin answers. A family crisis has emerged. Ok. 24 hours later ma girl calls and asks if I can still buy those laptops etc. Avoiding the issue completey until asking if Im vexed wit her. I answer WTF do you think. She apologises profusely and I hang up. A bit of context? She didnt quite have closure with her ex so thats possbile and also she seems a little immature. I won't ever call that woman again cos im too proud for that shit - but im slowly going insane wondering a) what the fuck is she thinking and doing and b) How did I let myself get so atached so quikly. I banged this fine armani model the next night and it did make me feel a little better but I'm still thinking about her all day and want some advice on how to proceed if she calls and if she doesnt. At least on how to get her out of my mind. All help is appreciated. You need to figure out what you want from this woman dude. Sounds like she's trying to play you to me. I'm telling you right now, she's not worth it. Don't even think about her except as a f..k buddy. Of course you could torture yourself and hope she changes. Trust me, she's done this shyt before. And that's probably why she's got an ex. What? Is she extra hot, young or something? Mind over matter. Put a personal ad in the paper, on the internet or something and concentrate on meeting more chicks. Because you don't want to end up with this one long term. Not at this stage in her life. Let her torture somebody else with her inconsistent bullshyt. Snap out of it. NOW..

Author:	gyarados [ Sat Nov 24, 2007 4:20 am ]
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she slept with you straight away? RED SIREN probably rebound from her ex, girls who jump into things too quickly it's normally the case some girls jump from guy to guy to get at the ones previous. and to escape the feeling of being alone where their ex probably is meeting with other girls, drives them and gives them the motivation to try and "create" a relationship out of nothing with the next decent looking guy they meet regardless of his personality. I think that's why they give them sex all of the time so they can keep them, until they are strong enough to be alone again or if things don't work out with them they move onto an easier target. Its normally the ones who chase me I find are like this. Even if I never call them I receive countless text messages and missed calls asking me to come round and see them. Girls like this personally I just ring them and be nice and a little patronising and say "alright, can you delete my number" and the response is normally "huh?" and so I say "can you, delete my number. and all of my messages, and clear the call register." then you get the "yeh" and then I say "alright, what, you gonna do that now?" ..."yeh", "cool, im goin ok" "ok bye" "bye" Instead of the "doint ever call me again BITCH" thing which would cause an argument, I say it in such a calm happy way, and the girl responds in the same way and there is no bad feelings afterwards. and you don't hate each other, like in every other relationship ending.

Author:	whupthatho [ Sat Nov 24, 2007 6:59 pm ]
Post subject:	ta
Thanks - yes I still havn't heard from her. Still pains me but slowly getting over it. I need revenge though - When she comes back crawling I'm definatelay gonna arrange a date and no show. Denial and frustration are giving way to anger - no doubt this will soon turn to the long awaited apathy.

Author:	Starbuck [ Sat Nov 24, 2007 10:02 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: ta
Quote: Thanks - yes I still havn't heard from her. Still pains me but slowly getting over it. I need revenge though - When she comes back crawling I'm definatelay gonna arrange a date and no show. Denial and frustration are giving way to anger - no doubt this will soon turn to the long awaited apathy. Yep, it sad when people, especially women fail to live up to our expectations. You sound like a smart fellow. Oh well, that's one strike against you right there. The right woman is out there for you. Have faith in this. And never let your inner game degrade to the point where, when she finally does arrive in your life you've become too bitter to recognize it.

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Author:	whupthatho [ Sun Nov 25, 2007 11:14 am ]
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And thanks to a great bunch of people taking the time to hear me whine! At the very least she has sterred me into this world of PUA. Time to refine my game! Thanks

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