Man, when I came here, I was just a few weeks into my second attempt at improving my game.
I starting working on it back in January and I tried to fix some stuff for a couple months, got some new clothes, started being conscious of how I walked and talked. I got tired of doing it alone and my roomates giving me a hard time for spending to much time talking about it and thinking about it, so I dropped it.
I went to this annual music festival in August that I'd been to last year. I didn't really get anywhere last year, but I was confident that with even a small increase in my game I could do better, because honestly, its like shooting fish in a barrel there. People walk around handing out free condoms, just to make sure people are prepared when some sex comes their way.
I didn't get anything though. I was close with one girl, but she had a bf and even though I knew he was a dick and I should just get with her anyways cause she wanted it, I didn't have the tools. I tried going to find other girls, but I didn't know how to do cold approaches, only warm approaches.
So, when I got home, I re-read The Game and I started reading other books about psychology and sexuality and why people do what they do. Then I hopped on here and asked a question, but no one really gave me the kind of answer I was looking for. So, I just started browsing through the place, looking at other people's questions and I realised that its much easier to figure out what other people are doing wrong that what I'M doing wrong! So, I started answering questions and people actually LIKED what they heard! From some guy that really didn't have much experience himself. So then I started looking at the stuff I was answering and as I would answer, I would think about how I had been in similar situations and what I had done wrong, just like these people. After a little while, I realised where I was making mistakes and I could correct them now. Since then, I've been able to open sets and get numbers and even set up day 2's without any trouble.
So, If a guy that just came out of nowhere and hadn't been hanging around for 2 months, can suddenly turn it all around, then so can anybody and I hope people try. I know I was afraid to start posting and stating my opinions, but you never know, maybe yours are good too.
Whew, sorry that got so long! Inspirational stories just kinda take on a life of their own!
